That's excatly what I've decided to do TEACHRMN.. to enjoy myself....I've joined my local meetup.com to share hobbies, make plain friendships. I'm enjoying my books and love of history, music, art, movies, and dogs. I feel more connected now and less fixated on the opposite sex. Yes, I do daydream of sex at times but I know that there are ways to enjoy myself and sort of release those frustruations without dealing with he drama of online dating or dating for that matter. My new favorite quote "TRAVEL4WARD"