It's damn hard to fall in love

[yongyong]

I watched the movie 'Hitch' yesterday.

 

Will Smith said 'it's damn hard to fall in love' after Eva Mendez found out he was a dating coach and figured she was being worked on.

 

That quote totally struck my head cuz I felt the same say

 

I am a guy looking for a serious relationship with someone I am connected with, but it just doesn't happen.

 

I had a good feeling about this girl whom I met online and figured she would be a good LTR partner.

well after cancelling 2 dates (she apologized and we rescheduled) she finally cancelled 3rd one. I txted her 'nice talking to you'

There were more chances with women I actually liked (not from online) but it just didn't happen.

 

I think I am not giving good vibe especially when I meet someone I really like. (it's natural that you should be nervous with someone you like)

 

I am constantly going out to talk to women, meeting other women whom I am not interested as LTR so I can understand about women and feel comfortable around them.

 

I made out with this single mom on first date but I don't see any future between us.

I hooked up with this youger girl on first day but I don't think she is looking for serious relationship.

 

Instead of meeting those women for meaningless relationship, I'd rather settle down with one girl I really like.

 

but I feel like this is what I have to do. I can just wait till the dream girl comes along and fxxk it up like I did before, or keep going out with women so I can be ready.