Slug Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 My wife is at a cross road of finding herself and in love. She has never come to a road of understanding you need to love yourself before you can love another person. Plus what you really feel about things your core values, not what you should say that is right or think that is right (me). We have been together and married for 10 years and she is in an emotional affair with another person. After all the attempts to break the emotional affair and all the other scars that were left within the marriage. The cross road is she must choose to stay in the marriage which seems right for all the right reasons or letting go for all the bad things that has expired and remind her every day . I have a feeling this will be great ether way I will love her even after the choice and respect she will choose what needs to be done. Today is the day she will make the choice after telling her I still love her and I still want to be with her and can't think of anyone I would rather be with. We have come to an understanding we love each other unconditional. We talk like big people but don’t give in the temptation of distorted feelings of rage, anger, jealousy. This is still hard to put these feeling aside and for me still to grasp, but understanding one another is the true test with selfish feelings set aside. Link to post Share on other sites
lostsunsets Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Wow, how enlightened. I wonder if she may go with the other guy because he has convinced her that he can't live without her. You know, somebody immature that thinks the sun rises and set in her eyes. I have a feeling that she is in this emotional affair because she wasn't getting her ENs met by you. Maybe she feels that "you're just not that into her". You can always be good friends though. Well you can be confident that you were very mature as she walks out of your life with the man that can't live without her. Link to post Share on other sites
imagine Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Collect evidence of the liason. Expose her. Fight for your marriage. This is your job. After exposure, fix your marriage. Check out marriagebuilders.com. The articles are free. Link to post Share on other sites
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