Lost_soul Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 ok.. so ive got a new bf now.. and its been a year or so since ive spoken to my ex. My bf and i have been together for nearly 4 years. When my ex and i broke up, it was sour, as he left me for another girl who used him as an accessory (they didnt even date). I kept hanging around hoping he'd come back.. but eventually i figured he was just using me for sex.. and that he was neva coming back, and that i best move on with my life. There would be intervals though, where id get a random phone call from him late at night *figured they were bootie calls*.. and this would happen once every few months out of the blue.. But last week as i was sitting in my car (which was parked on the road) getting ready to leave for work... i noticed an awfully fimiliar car driving slowly through my street towards my house... As i sat there, i pinpointed who's car it was. IT WAS MY EX! Same numberplate and all with him driving! It was 10.40am in the morning, so you'd assume a normal person would be at work at that time.. so As he drove pass, i did a uturn to progress out the street.. But by the time i completed the uturn and reached the lights at the end of my street... HE WAS GONE! IN A FLASH! He mustve ran a red light.. It bothered me for a few days as to why he was driving pass.. so i msged him and confronted him. He denied it was him at first, and then he tried to make it sound like a joke when he said "yeh ok i drove pass to look at your cute little booty"... now ive told him not to drive pass anymore and 2 not contact me. My street is a small street with one way in and one way out.. If my house was on the main road then i wouldnt care how many ppl drive by because it wouldnt seem odd.. but my house is out of the way... I was just curious as to what people thought.. Why did he drive by after so long of not talking? It puzzled me as he has always told me he has no feelings for me, and that he no longer loved me anymore. We use to hang out alot after our break up though, until i started seeing my new bf. He has no friends in my street... i know this for a fact... And yes.. i know i have a bf i love and cherish.. but like i said, im curious. I would never leave my bf for my ex.. period. Thanks in advance guys! Xo Link to post Share on other sites
runner Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 it means he's being a creep. guys like him make me want to post in the 'bash your own gender' thread here's to hoping you won't need a restraining order. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 OP, if this is the first you've seen of him in 4 years, the best thing to do is recognize that he still remembers you and is curious. If you see him again in the near future, then consider it to be more than idle curiosity. After you broke up, did he "stalk" you in person? If no, I doubt he's going to turn into that kind of person. Do you and your BF live together? If you do, definitely tell him. You and your ex have been in contact recently via text and he needs to be on board with that. I'd likely tell him regardless. His "bootie" texts and his language during your most recent exchange underscore the way most men bond with women, through sex. He remembers the sex and your "bootie". Link to post Share on other sites
Not the love ace Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 He's being a little creepy, and he sounds desperate. Weird. Link to post Share on other sites
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