Will a girl remeber you if you're a great lover?

[Not the love ace]

I know this question sounds kind of weird, I just didn't know how to ask it just in case I offend some of the women.

 

Anyway, I was wondering if a guy makes really awesome love to a girl is it something that will make the girl more emotionally attached to the guy? From what I know it seems that most girls get more emotionally attached when it comes to sex than guys do, and it means a lot more emotionally.

 

I ask this question because I know some girls that might have a boyfriend who doesn't treat them the best but from what they tell me the guy is an awesome lover and it is something drives them back to that guy sometimes. Then they'll have a guy who is really great to them, but the sex isn't the best and it seems like that's something that bothers them.

 

Also say if a women and man have sex with no strings attached (sex partners, F-buddies), it seems like if the sex is incredible and they continue to do it for a while that the girl will be the one to get more emotionally attached to the guy.

 

I know not all women are like that, and some women just enjoy having sex with no strings attached just as much as guys might.

 

I hope the question make sense or at least some people get what I am asking.

 

Give me your thoughts and/or opinions.

[Mandapanda]

Actually, it's a touchy subject when it comes down to it.

I've heard, and truly believe that if someone can absolutly rock your world in bed, leaving you breathless that you can actually mistaken that earth shattering lust for real feelings.

 

My ex boyfriend was amazing in bed, in every aspect. He was a God with his tongue, and just... fantastic with everything else. It was GREAT. He did cheat on me, the whole time and I subconsciously knew it, and I think if he wouldn't of been so good in bed, that I wouldn't have put up with it so long.

 

My mother always told me 'Never marry the guy that is best in bed, you'll take too much **** off him, and let him walk all over you' and she knows, because that is what she did.

 

I was engaged to that guy, and I would have went through with it if I had a little less pride, but I couldn't handle the cheating as far as the rest of my life I would have never been able to trust him.

 

Basically, to answer your question... yes. Girls get way more emotionally attached, and can mistake that feeling for love.

[Chrome Barracuda]

WTF mandapanda? that answer has nothing to do with the thread. lol.

 

but anyway's I think if a woman remembers a man that can make her reach the big O. then it's possible. it gotta be memorable.

[bella23]

WTF mandapanda? that answer has nothing to do with the thread. lol.

 

but anyway's I think if a woman remembers a man that can make her reach the big O. then it's possible. it gotta be memorable.

 

I have to agree with your last part lol.... that is s0o true...

[griffy]

Yes, a woman will remember if a guy is great in bed, but I don't think it matters much. Having good sex and being in love with someone are two different things.

 

I have an ex who was AWESOME in bed. I honestly can't imagine sex being better! I miss having good sex, but I don't miss him because I just wasn't as in love with him as I should have been. I have no desire to be with him or have sex with him (though he was actually great guy all around).

 

My most recent ex was NOT good in bed, but I miss him every day and still have naive fantasies that one day we will be able to be together--bad sex and all!

 

In a way, sex was better with the ex who wasn't good than the one who was because I was SO madly in love with him. I would rather be intimate with him than someone who I felt less for but who was better in bed (which is probably most people. Honestly, the sex really sucked at times!)

 

So no, sex doesn't make me feel something for a person I didn't feel it for in the first place.

[D-Lish]

I remember the guys that rocked my world in bed. I'm pretty sure that some of the guys I have "dated' will remember me as well.

 

I don't look back and wish I was still with them or compare them.

Most guys I have been with have given me the "O". I might have a fleeting thought of that here and there... but sort of in the same way I remember the best hamburger I have had. Not having that hamburger again only means I can get used to the club sandwich I am eating now.