PLS HELP ME at this difficult stage of my relationship!

[Manick]

I had a serious fight with my girlfriend and it was my fault. The time that we had the fight though, I was trying to make her understand some things but she couldnt. This morning I called her and she was really different than other times. I asked her the reason that she spoke in this way (not agressively but somehow strange) and she answered that she woke up in a bad mood. I am very sad, that have discussions like this, as we have a great time in our relationship. I dont want the last fight to ruin things. The last two months we have lots of fights. I dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME with your opinions , views and advice.....

 

Thanks,

REALLY sad and desperated Nick

[moimeme]

It isn't really a good policy to try to 'make' somebody understand something. If you have a lot of fights, what are they about?

[Manick]

They are for various reasons but not important at all! I think that Iam right and she also does! I dont know what to do. We are fighting but every time we understand that it's not worthy and we regret it... We love each other but personally I don't know how to stop this!

[VASH THE STAMPEDE]

Sometimes me and my wife get like that,all you could do is try to control your emotions before someone gets hurt.

[moimeme]

Sometimes you fight over small stuff because there's a bigger issue underneath. If you really think hard, is there some sort of problem you're not discussing that you want to? Is there a trust problem or a problem with someone not spending enough time with the other, for instance?