loving michelle Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 I am new to this site.....My husband of 16 yrs. had an affair with a married woman at his workplace....He came home about 9 months ago and said he did not love me anymore broke my heart and packed his things and left me and our son who is 9 yrs. old. I kept wondering what I did wrong for a whole month I was just sick to my stomach everyone kept telling me not to take him back at the time I didn't think I wanted him back.....I filed for divorce and about 1 month after he left he decided he wanted to come back home the grass was not as green on the other side as he thought it was. I really do love him and did not want to give up on our marriage of 16 yrs. We had been through so much together we had lost our 2 yr. old daughter and had a son. I struggle with trust and the betrayal I feel sometimes gets the best of me but as time goes on it does get better I still have thoughts of them together and he continues to work at the same place around her. He says he has no contact with her and avoids her but I still think about them in the back of my mind. Does anybody have any advice on how to cope or have been in my situation? Link to post Share on other sites
imagine Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Start reading. Surviving an Affair - Dr Harley. His needs/her needs -Dr Harley Five languages of love -G. Chapman Read articles at Marriagebuilders. Don't let it go. Contact her husband in order to correlate. He must positively have no contact with her ever again. He may have to quit his job. After exposure, fix the marriage. Beware of councilors. There are a lot of really bad ones out there. Read about the construction of marriagebuilders. Link to post Share on other sites
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