Beautiful Inside Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 do you ever feel like after the honeymoon stage is over that the person your with is really into you any more?... i feel like ive been with my bf/fiance for almost 2 years now and the last couple months things have just changed so much sex, affection passion everything i dont get any attention i feel like. we dont even have conversations really anymore. he use to love staying home to watch movies and cuddle that no longer exists he sits o his computer all night...i feel like we're old or something.... Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Hey Sasha - you replied to my thread before so thought i'd do the same. If you want to talk, PM me and i'll give you my email address! Would love to chat to you! Sometimes I feel I have the same problem but it's not ME losing the passion, I feel it's him! When we used to be equal! Maybe you need to stir/shake things up a little, be less predictable, take HIM on a date, initiate things more, shake it up, BUT if he doesn't get the hint and begin reciprocating, have a word. I wrote my boyfriend a 'happy' letter saying little changes we should BOTH make, so the accusations aren't all on him and also i'm taking him on a date friday so he can't say i'm not making the effort! I guess if you want passion, do your part. If he doesn't respond, bring it up but NOT angrily or sadly, just calmly - but make sure he talks. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Also I just wanted to add, you are VERY beautiful, so I can't see why your boyfriend would be becoming less passionate. It's true though when they stop saying you're beautiful or noticing or bothering, you stop making as much effort, THEN they wake up and say she let herself go! I think men tend to let themselves go FIRST in terms of the maintenance they pay to the relationship! But like I said if you make effort to show it's equal, he should get the hint! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 Perhaps your BF needs more than a gorgeous face/body to look at? Link to post Share on other sites
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