aquaria127 Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 I am supposed to be going on a trip to see my new boyfriend in about 10 days. we're going to disneyland, las vegas, I'm going to visit my best friend in san diego. I'm super-psyched to go see him, but dont know if I'm *trippin* about the vegas part of this vacation. He's going to an aerosmith show with his bestgirl friend. He told me that after, he wants to party all night. I feel kinda weird about it. It's not because I think I should be the one going, they bought the tickets like 3 months ago. they're major excited about it, and it's cool they get to see the toxic twins live in concert. But, I'll be roaming around this city i've never been to, by myself for the evening? Hanging after the show, we would go to the bars and casinos and whatever else people do I guess. he says "it's not like we weren't all hanging out together all summer." I don't want anyone feeling like a third wheel or getting *ditched* -for example if they talk about it all night, or my bf and I decide to get a room. I'm ok on a solo mission and she is too, but ....eh.... any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 VACATION TIME,Enjoy your self go to a show or a restaurant,don't feel like a third party type of person ,set your own pace. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aquaria127 Posted October 12, 2003 Author Share Posted October 12, 2003 well I guess I'm also a little annoyed at the thought of him drinking a lot that day. he gets all loud and huggy and talkative, which can sometimes get a bit irritating. you know how it is when you meet up with someone who's been on a totally different trip than you.... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 12, 2003 Share Posted October 12, 2003 Be prepared to find another boyfriend at some point. For him to take you clear out to Las Vegas and put you off in favor of taking a "friend" to an Aerosmith concert is about as rude as it gets. Certainly you can find a guy who is more thoughtful and considerate than this. He should have either bought a third ticket to take you along as well...or even a fourth to take you and your girlfriend...or he should give his two tickets to his lady buddy, let her find somebody else to go with, and be with you. I think he's a truly selfixh bastard. You are absolutely correct to feel like you are feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aquaria127 Posted October 12, 2003 Author Share Posted October 12, 2003 I love to believe that people are not selfish, that someone who says he loves me and cares, isn't taking advantage of me (for example renting the car to go from LA to Las Vegas)! I could tell myself it's cool that he's going to see aerosmith with his friend because there's lots of other things to do and I get to hang out with both of them afterwards. I don't want to feel like "a third-wheel kind of person" and, maybe I should just lighten up. Though, like you say Tony it feels selfish. I know I'll have to make a decision soon. thanks to both of you for your replies. Link to post Share on other sites
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