Is it possible?

[Stephanie]

I met this guy, and we went out and now we are like committed I guess u can say. We have only been together like a week or a little over a week and he is telling me that he is falling for me. I think it's a bunch of bull, and all he wants is to get in my pants. But, I have asked some people oppions on this and some say he just saying it, and some say he could really mean it. I mean fine u can't put a time limit on how u feel about someone, but a week that's crazy. I told him to how I think he is crazy and I also told him I don't feel the same way. Another thing he knows he's not getting anything from me because we already discussed it.

[billy the kid]

don't give any thing up except (1) A kiss or two. (2)AND TIME...GIVE him plenty of #2 and it well tell.... I have felt like him before, and I believe in love at first sight, but only time will really tell...

I met this guy, and we went out and now we are like committed I guess u can say. We have only been together like a week or a little over a week and he is telling me that he is falling for me. I think it's a bunch of bull, and all he wants is to get in my pants. But, I have asked some people oppions on this and some say he just saying it, and some say he could really mean it. I mean fine u can't put a time limit on how u feel about someone, but a week that's crazy. I told him to how I think he is crazy and I also told him I don't feel the same way. Another thing he knows he's not getting anything from me because we already discussed it.

[Tony T]

It sounds like you tell it like it is and have no problems expressing yourself.

 

I think a guy can get infatuated with a lady rather quickly but he's got to be very stupid to tell her soon in the relationship. Ladies, like men, enjoy a challenge. Letting you know so soon how much he likes you would make most ladies sort of wonder what kind of problem he may have.

 

Since you do such a great job of expressing yourself, tell him that it's not very sexy or attractive to come on so strong so soon in a relationship and that you are not impressed. Then see if he slows down a bit.

 

What confuses me is that you say in your post that you are "like committed" and yet you also say you don't feel the same about him as he feels about you. You are sending him some really mixed signals. Straighten him out quick on this point and go from there!!!