Meaplus3 Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I’ve got myself in an awful situation.... Here’s how I ended up where I’m at... Over a year ago I met a man in passing... I was really attracted to him... Even though I didn’t want to be I knew he was a married man.... 9 Months after seeing him for the first time I figured I would finally just give him a smile and say hello... He said hello and gave me a huge smile in return.... this went on everyday for a couple weeks... When one morning I smiled waved and he smiled and blew me a kiss... I was totally floored... I thought to myself that didn’t just happen... So the next day when I saw him I waved and smiled and in return I got a smile and another kiss blown to me... Of course I was tickled because I was very attracted to him... we started talking when we saw each other.... then we exchanged numbers and began talking for hours at a time... until his wife found out.... she called me.... we talked for days and kind of worked threw things and her and I started talking on a regular basis and kinda of became friends... all the while him and I couldn’t stay away from each other.. and my feelings for him grew stronger..... we continued to sneak and talk to each other and see each other when ever we could... After this going on for over 6 months I found my self totally in love with him.... but I feel so lost and confused and i feel like such a heel here I am in love with a married man and have be friended his wife.... But it gets worse.... Now his wife and I are friends and she’s been saying how beautiful i am and that she wants me to have a threesome with her and him.... OMG.... What do you say to that.... I don’t know what to do.... People say just cut the both of them out of your life but that’s easier said then done especially when there’s feelings involved.... Wowzer! This is a real humdinger of a situation. Honestly, I'd say toss them both here. I mean how on earth are you going to keep your feelings a secret if you get into a threesome? Don't you think it will be obvious to the W that you and mm feel something more for one another? Run for the hills and fast you will be much better off. Mea:) Link to post Share on other sites
jj33 Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Youve gotten good advice. It would be a fun experienc for them as a couple. Where does that leave you? It leaves you in love with him, being taken for a fun little spin in bed getting none of hte emotions you seek in return. The mere fact that he would be OK with that says alot about where he is coming from. He likes to play he likes to flirt. He may be fond of you but this is not a relationshp that is going anywhere - except to the bedroom for a little bit of fun. Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Many couples really enjoy threesomes. The hard part for some is finding a single woman to join them. The wife knows you have a crush on her husband. She is not threatened in the least by this, so her H must be being pretty open to her about you. They both think you will be fun for a threesome, and that you will do it because you have a crush on husband. If you can do it, fine. But honest - he is just reeling you in. Link to post Share on other sites
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