I guess it's true....you don't know what you had until it's gone!

[LonelyTiger]

Hi Cora.

 

It's lovely to hear from you again - you are certainly not 'a pain' - please don't think that about yourself.

 

You're a sweet girl and we're all here to help and support you if we can - so keep posting whenever you feel the need.

 

My thoughts on this are to leave well alone.

 

He left no message. If he wanted you to call back he would have left a message.... and if he does want to talk he will call again.

 

You said that he has a girlfriend (albeit LDR). Maybe she was there on a visit, discovered your number somehow and knew that you were somebody he used to call regularly. Maybe she was curious.....?

 

Who knows.

 

Just forget it happened and carry on being happy with yourself.

[Cora]

bunnybunny and LonelyTiger: Thank you so much for your response. What you guys suggested was probably best but I was too weak unfortunately and I called him today.....Ughh. I gotta stop doing that I know. Anyway, he did not answer so I left a brief voicemail Just saying hey I saw that I got a missed call from you the other day and was just calling to see how you were doing. Almost two hours later I checked my phone and noticed he had called me back but again left no voicemail. Well I'm not calling him back anymore. He apparently does not want to talk to me if he can't leave a message so I'm letting it go. Should have listened to you guys all along and not bothered calling him in the first place. Ah well what's done is done. Thanks again you guys.