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What happens when your 20 year old is now 30?


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I think men who want little girls are either impotent, have ED or are lousy lovers. They pick on little girls who don't know what real sex is. Then, the little girl grows up, figures it out and dumps their sorry arse!

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Ha, sure ya, a hot 20-something woman doesn't know what sex is supposed to be like. OK, fine, whatever.

 

Sweetheart, a 20 something can not USUALLY light a candle to an experienced woman in her forties let's say. As with everything, experience is KEY. Young girls are too uptight to enjoy sex. Also, I seem to have read somewhere that neurologically speaking they are not fully sensitized "down there" yet.

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Sweetheart, a 20 something can not USUALLY light a candle to an experienced woman in her forties let's say. As with everything, experience is KEY. Young girls are too uptight to enjoy sex. Also, I seem to have read somewhere that neurologically speaking they are not fully sensitized "down there" yet.

 

Honeypot, I've been with plenty of women, aged 16-56 and trust me, women might think they are getting better but, really not. The emotional bond that should exist between a man and a woman of that age is what would make it special, but a lot of modern women fail to stick with one man long enough to form that bond.

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The emotional bond that should exist between a man and a woman of that age is what would make it special, but a lot of modern women fail to stick with one man long enough to form that bond.

 

This is another story. Back on topic. Most twenty-year olds wouldn't know an orgasm if it hit them in the face...or "elsewhere" as the case may be.

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This is another story. Back on topic. Most twenty-year olds wouldn't know an orgasm if it hit them in the face...or "elsewhere" as the case may be.

 

I'm pretty sure I'd know anything that hit me in the face. I'd at least go to the effort of finding out.

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I'm pretty sure I'd know anything that hit me in the face. I'd at least go to the effort of finding out.

 

Like a taste test?

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I'm pretty sure I'd know anything that hit me in the face. I'd at least go to the effort of finding out.

 

Hilarious!! Of course I meant their own orgasm if they could manage to have one!

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Young girls are too uptight to enjoy sex.
This is soooooo true! :bunny:

 

Honeypot, I've been with plenty of women, aged 16-56 and trust me, women might think they are getting better but, really not.
I think you misunderstood Marlena. She was talking about women enjoying sex - that it takes experience; not that older women are better in bed (from a man's perspective). Of course, you might not care at all about the woman's pleasure! :laugh: Just kidding... :)

 

Hilarious!! Of course I meant their own orgasm if they could manage to have one!
Regular orgasms come with age when a woman learns her body. I'd talked to my friends about it when we were around 20. None of us had it but once or twice and most had never had them.

 

Even if they accidentally figure out how to reach it, are they comfortable enough with their bodies to do what it takes to make those O's strong? I think the erotic freedom that comes with age is the key to pleasure. Sex is about freedom. A young girl is thinking about whether her face looks uncool while she is giving oral; and she is calculating the days from her last period.

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Honeypot, I've been with plenty of women, aged 16-56 and trust me, women might think they are getting better but, really not. The emotional bond that should exist between a man and a woman of that age is what would make it special, but a lot of modern women fail to stick with one man long enough to form that bond.

 

And here I thought it took to people to make and break a relationship. All this time I should have realized it was the woman's fault why people didn't stick together. :lmao: Irrational much.

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Apparently most men lose interest in a woman as she gets older..or they love how giving she is of herself to meet his needs but still check out the 18 year old girls and think about doing them.

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Also, I seem to have read somewhere that neurologically speaking they are not fully sensitized "down there" yet

 

Well, maybe that's why I don't feel much during penetration

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Ha, sure ya, a hot 20-something woman doesn't know what sex is supposed to be like. OK, fine, whatever.

Well, I'm 22 and I have not had good experiences with sex at all.

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Well, I'm 22 and I have not had good experiences with sex at all.

 

You need to be with a guy in his thirties, then. ;) Old enough to do it well, young enough to do it often!

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Aren't you the guy that said that people should be with who they want? :confused: Why are you tring to tell her to be with who *you* want her to be with? She is much brighter then that and will see right through it.

 

By the way 30 year old men don't neccessarily know how to do it better. Believe me. :lmao: Most men like to think they are studs but quite honestly, not nearly as many men are as they think they are.

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Sweetheart, a 20 something can not USUALLY light a candle to an experienced woman in her forties let's say. As with everything, experience is KEY. Young girls are too uptight to enjoy sex. Also, I seem to have read somewhere that neurologically speaking they are not fully sensitized "down there" yet.

 

Sorry, but this is one of the things older women like to tell themselves in order to feel some sort of "advantage" to younger women, to feel better about themselves. The stuck-up tone is somewhat insulting, and it's definitely not true in all cases anyway. I experimented a lot more when I was younger, tried more things sexually, things in which I have no interest anymore because back then I was a) gullible and b) more into trying (and to be honest, pleasing a guy). Now I'm like, "been there, done that, no thanks, not again".

 

I didn't mean to bash older women, not at all, but just as much as I don't like older men feeling superior, I don't like older women doing the same either, so I had to say something. (I don't like young people doing the same either, just to be fair. In general, I get more and more the feeling that there's this stupid competition between the generations about who's cooler, hipper and younger. Ridiculous.)

 

And I already knew what an orgasm was before I hit puberty.

 

 

A young girl is thinking about whether her face looks uncool while she is giving oral; and she is calculating the days from her last period.

 

This is the stupidest thing I've ever read. It just proves my point above. Sorry, but you haven't exactly covered yourself with glory with that comment.

 

 

Well, maybe that's why I don't feel much during penetration

 

No, it's just about the angle really. And your brain.

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Sorry, but this is one of the things older women like to tell themselves in order to feel some sort of "advantage" to younger women, to feel better about themselves.

 

No, sorry. You forget that this older woman was once young, no?

 

Reaching orgasm or multiple orgasms is about complete abandonment. Young girls are usually still very self-conscious and this is an impediment to their pleasure. They also, as a rule, do not have much experience in order to make the comparison between a good lover and a not so good lover. I also pointed out that I had read somewhere, no, actually this comes from many sources which I am too lazy to look up right now, that a woman's female organs are not fully sensitized until well into their thirties.

 

Anyway, I apologize if you think the tone was derogatory. It wasn't meant to be. I am fully aware that younger girls are hotter and prettier but this wasn't about appearances, at least, I didn't think it was.

 

 

And I already knew what an orgasm was before I hit puberty.

 

 

If this is true, then, I would say this is the exception to the rule. JMHO!!

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I am fully aware that younger girls are hotter and prettier but this wasn't about appearances, at least, I didn't think it was.

 

Indeed, it wasn't. Like I said, I don't get the whole competition thing. I never considered myself "hot" anyway.

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You older women shouldn't have to feel the need to portray a sense of superiority or belittle younger women anyways. All that does is make you come off as insecure and offended by the fact that some men prefer younger women. So what? Its not the end all be all of your life. Not all guys prefer younger women. Some prefer older women. Some prefer fat chicks instead of the ones that are in shape and healthy. Its just a damn preference. There's nothing pig-headed, shallow, insensitive, or assholish about it. If thats the case then look your father's in the face and call him a douchebag for choosing your mother over a woman 5-10 years her senior.

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You older women shouldn't have to feel the need to portray a sense of superiority or belittle younger women anyways.

 

We haven't. That's your interpretation. Like women of all ages, we know our strengths and weaknesses. So, no need to get so pissy.

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We haven't. That's your interpretation. Like women of all ages, we know our strengths and weaknesses. So, no need to get so pissy.

 

As long as you understand that the high horse doesn't need to come out when the topic of younger women comes into the conversation. Stop feeling so damn threatened. And if not you, then other female posters in here crying about something that isn't even that big of a deal.

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Aren't you the guy that said that people should be with who they want? :confused: Why are you tring to tell her to be with who *you* want her to be with? She is much brighter then that and will see right through it.

 

By the way 30 year old men don't neccessarily know how to do it better. Believe me. :lmao: Most men like to think they are studs but quite honestly, not nearly as many men are as they think they are.

 

Wow. Relax...I was joking. I honestly don't care who she is with.

 

And thanks for sharing your opinion. Apparently generalizations are only true when you agree with them.

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No, it's just about the angle really. And your brain.

 

Well, I hope so. I've had sex toys and moved it all around and still felt nothing.

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