sensetarget Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 I had a great relationship with my gf. Until I was so stressed that I lashed at her during a movie, because of some chick was cheating on another guy. (I think lashed was a strong word, I asked her "dont you find this wrong?") (having to go school full time and work 23-30 hrs and finals in the same week really messed me up) I took note of it, but it was too late, and she went on a rampage on how I always dont trust her. I confessed that I snooped around in her email (yes wrong) and talked about my insecurities. I'm a jealous person and when I'm worried I think of bad stuff ect. And it has been killing me to just tell it to her. And when I tried, its just fingers pointing back at me and her telling me I dont trust her. Seems every time I try to talk about this, I told her I need her help if were going to continue this relationship. We both want it, but she told me that I have to fix it myself and prove to her. Truly I need her to help me with this, and I dont know how to confront it, its just that she treats me as a whole different person after this incident. And truly I really want to fix this jealousy. I need advice, on how can we rebuild this trust. The compatibility isnt the issue, we both know it. This relationship is also long distance, and we have built too much to just throw it away. Link to post Share on other sites
unique77 Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 If she ain't never give you no reason not to trust her. then you are the ones with the issue. not her. to rebuild it you need to stop acting like she out there doing u wrong if u know she aint. Link to post Share on other sites
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