unique77 Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 I am 20 yrs old. I have 3 female friends that are best friends to me but at the same time they are my family. they are all blood relatives. all friends outside of family are males. or should i say use to be my friends. i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs now but he dont want me having male friends cause he think they all like me. so now im a loner. i dont work so i cant meet new people. i dont drive but i wanna find new friends but i dont know where to start. how can i meet new people since im no longer in school? i want a social life. I am a very nice person and easy to get along with. I dont understand why meeting people and staying in touch is sooo hard. Link to post Share on other sites
ABrokenWing Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I am 20 yrs old. I have 3 female friends that are best friends to me but at the same time they are my family. they are all blood relatives. all friends outside of family are males. or should i say use to be my friends. i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs now but he dont want me having male friends cause he think they all like me. so now im a loner. i dont work so i cant meet new people. i dont drive but i wanna find new friends but i dont know where to start. how can i meet new people since im no longer in school? i want a social life. I am a very nice person and easy to get along with. I dont understand why meeting people and staying in touch is sooo hard. personally, I think you need to have a chat with your boyfriend. If my boyfriend didn't want me to have my guy friends, he'd be my boyfriend no longer. As for meeting new ppl, what about getting a part time job somewhere where you would meet ppl around your age? Coffee house, or bookstore? I agree it is hard to meet new ppl. I'm 30 and have some really good friends, but it'd be nice to meet more that are closer to me. But seriously, talk to your boyfriend, he doesn't have the right to tell you not to be friends with someone, even guys, if you are not interested in them romantically. Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I agree with the other poster here your bf shouldn't be dictateing who your friends are if they were all exs or something then maybe thats a different story. He sounds insecure and controlling I don't see how you will have much of a social life other then him white you too are together. You watch after a while he will start not wanting you around other girls ether.. Link to post Share on other sites
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