ilikegirls Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 so ive liked this girl for a while now (about a year) in this time we have gotten really close ive told her i that i liked her and in a nutshell she told me "i like you too but if we go out i dont want to lose you, because in this world there is one person just like you and for me that is you" - basically i just want to be friends im not sure if what she told me about liking me too is BS or not but she flirts with me when we are together -she touches me for not reason -play punches me -mimics me -bumps into me while standing still -when walking together she walks into me (bumping me) -but her arm on my shoulder (kinda as a rest) -laughs at the stupid things a say a lot more i just cant think of them right now & she asked me to junior prom..basically all grinding and freak dancing ^^all this was in the past week or 2^^ *but she talks to a lot of other guys, which kinda pisses me off and makes me jealous...but i dont show it What DO I DO? Link to post Share on other sites
xenonsrt10 Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 so ive liked this girl for a while now (about a year) in this time we have gotten really close ive told her i that i liked her and in a nutshell she told me "i like you too but if we go out i dont want to lose you, because in this world there is one person just like you and for me that is you" - basically i just want to be friends im not sure if what she told me about liking me too is BS or not but she flirts with me when we are together -she touches me for not reason -play punches me -mimics me -bumps into me while standing still -when walking together she walks into me (bumping me) -but her arm on my shoulder (kinda as a rest) -laughs at the stupid things a say a lot more i just cant think of them right now & she asked me to junior prom..basically all grinding and freak dancing ^^all this was in the past week or 2^^ *but she talks to a lot of other guys, which kinda pisses me off and makes me jealous...but i dont show it What DO I DO? dude that's messed up. you told her you liked her. she told you she liked you. she is displaying the most characteristic traits of a girl who likes you and you get....that?? it almost seems like she admits it then denies in in the same sentence to throw you off or something! you need to somehow find a way to discuss this again with her in a non-awkward way. let us know what happens with this. Link to post Share on other sites
Circe Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 There seem to be some women who enjoy exercising their own power of attraction over men. Not that they are ever really serious about you, but they want to keep you hanging on. You provide ego gratification for them and your sincere, loyal devotion. If a woman wants to be your friend, she will not flirt with you, she will not touch you for no reason, she will not ask you to the prom. On the other hand, if a woman wants to be intimate with you, as in BF/GF, she will say so and/or she will give you unmistakable indications that she wants more than just friendship. She won't say she wants you just for a friend -- not ever. Don't play this girl's game. You will be hurt. My advice is to focus on other girls and try to find one who will reciprocate your interest. Leave this one alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilikegirls Posted April 5, 2009 Author Share Posted April 5, 2009 the prom was today i had a GREAT time grinded with her the whole time... afterwards we held hands while walking, i put my arm around her and she liked it. *we really have anything to do after so we just drove around... and i got stopped by the police for curfew.. she was almost about to cry because she said it was her fault.. anyways she called her dad to pick her up and when he got there she asked him if they could wait till my mom came to get me...so they did and when my mom came she went running to the car window saying "it was all my fault" "please dont make him introuble" "please dont let him not see me anymore" etc. *this is the first time she saw/met my mom ---i want to move on, but im really like this girl i dont think my heart will let me just stop talking to her Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilikegirls Posted April 9, 2009 Author Share Posted April 9, 2009 help/bump^^ Link to post Share on other sites
vanilla87 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 haha, oh man, this girl has it bad for you with out even saying it! She likes you a lot! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilikegirls Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 what should i do!!! how can i initiate another talk...without being awkward? should i ignore her for a while? Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Start talking to another girl. Jealousy is the quickest way to figure out someone's feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
guitar23 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Showing interest in another girl can be a good idea. If you are doing this purely to get her reaction, then its important that you don't ignore her completely in the process, otherwise she could get upset and angry at you, for the sheer fact that you ignored her and you wont know if it's because of the other girl or not. If you can maintain regular contact and remain friendly, but make sure she knows you are "interested" in someone else, that's the ticket. In your case, you are hoping to get a reaction out of her. If you get a somewhat jealous reaction, you can ask her why she is acting that way. And since you haven't ignored her and have been friendly, she can't use that you were being rude or unkind to her as an excuse for her actions. If she seems immune to the idea of you liking another girl then either she is REALLY playing hard to get or she just see's you as a friend. In that case, hopefully you will have better luck with the girl you are now "interested" in anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilikegirls Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 OMFG...I JUST GOT STABBED IN THE HEART i just found out that she got back together with her ex after like 7 month of being apart ..i wonder if she is going to tell me..or she just hopes i dont find out i feel like ive wasted all that time with her & like ive lost my bestfriend i dont think i can still be friends with someone who just shattered my heart like that.. i dont want to talk to her anymore..but at the same time i do i also feel that everything she told me is BS FML Link to post Share on other sites
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