haileyscomet Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 On a recent night night I met a man who i work with but havent really spoken to before, both of us had had a few drinks and were merry, he spent more time with me that night and kissed me first, this eventually ended in us kissing all night and he gave me his phone number rather than asking for mine. i waited a couple of days and sent him a friendly text, he texted me back and put kisses on his text, i then texted a reply... expecting him to start the conversation up again which he didnt... i saw him at work a few days later for the first time since that night, he looked embaressed to see me and didnt come over and speak to me. i sent him a text message later in the day asking him what his plans were over the next couple of weeks... he replied saying that hed be busy and asking me a question, i texted him back then that thats it. i havent heard since then, i think maybe he has changed his mind about liking me? Link to post Share on other sites
imagine Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 I'm just thinking that maybe you looked hotter at the party than during the cold light of day. We guys can be fickle like that! Link to post Share on other sites
Kaii Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 I'm just thinking that maybe you looked hotter at the party than during the cold light of day. We guys can be fickle like that! Wow, that's cold but I think you are on to something. You can never take what anyone does while they are intoxicated as gospel. People simply aren't themselves when they are drunk, they are a watered down version of themselves who lack inhibition. I personally don't think he is into you. He would not be leaving your texts open ended..he would be responding back and pushing for more contact, ie "We should get together again". Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 It was a nice night That's probably the best way to process it. Link to post Share on other sites
Blu-Guy Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I would not put too much thought into it. Think of it as the night you learned he was really a jerk. Move on Im sure there are lots of other men waiting to meet you. Link to post Share on other sites
adi78 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 yeah babe there is a chance that he might have changed his mind about you. but there are other possibilities also . i would prefer you to meet him once before making any decision as you told that both of you exchanging texts thats is gate way through which you can judge this.i have tired a magical tool which reveals the secrete what your partener think about you. i recomend you to try that just try that once and i m sure that will really help you http://www.clubmz.com/free do let me know that worked or not best of luck...... Link to post Share on other sites
pinkiebrain Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 I had almost the exact same thing happen to me within the past 4 days... I went out with a guy from work who said he liked me a lot. He asked me out, paid, and then kissed me w/o me provoking or even expecting it. The next day at work he completely ignores me and i find out 2 days later from an inside friend that he "did like me but doesnt anymore". yeah apparently guys change their minds over night... He spent the entire date talking about how he's "real" and "honest" and "would tell me if he wasnt in to me like that" but in reality he was just a scared little boy. So anyway, i'm sorry to tell you but if he's ignoring you it's more than likely the case that he doesnt fancy you after all. Believe me when i say that it's NOTHING you did... guys can just be weird sometimes, especially when they have a great girl standing in front of them... intimidation/fear causes ignorance. KEEP YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH! Link to post Share on other sites
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