HELLLLLLLLPPP!

[annabella]

I've been with this guy for about 4 months now and I can't express any feelings for him in fact I think we don't belong with each other. I really wanna break up with him but knowing that he was my best friend before, I don't know what to do.....Why do I keep on looking to other guys? i really don't get my situation!! Please, I need some advice!

[Matthew]

I'm in a similar situation with my girlfriend. First, you need to decide whether he is or isn't the guy that you need to be dating right now. Then, talk to him. I know talking isn't easy, but it has to be done. The last thing you should do is lead him on. It will only make things worse. I'm not sure if that's helpful, but it's worth a shot.

[amy]

the best thing to do in my opinion is to be upfront and honest with him. after me and my boyfriend broke up it killed me and i think it is because of the lack of communication that we had. it was not good. it is better to admit where you stand and not make it a guessing game, cuz' when it results to that noone wins. believe me i know...

[annabella]

The thing that I don`t get is that i used to like this guy. When he asked me out, I was so happy. But things changed. It`s like I don`t wanna be with him anymore. He wants us to do stuff, and I always say I can`t. As if I`m trying to ignore him. I feel like i don`t have a boyfriend. I`m afraid that if I break up, We`ll never talk to each other( even though we promised that we would). I don`t know if I should break things off right now!!

[BA]

Ya, whatever. How old are you? This is not a problem my hopefully soon to be friend. What you discribed to me is life. And life is change. If you are going through changes right now, grasp it, feel it and love it. Believe me when I say there are many people who would love your're problems: options.