le_caz Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 my girlfriend dumped me months ago claiming distance was a problem, however she also gave a few different reasons, different lives ect. when she broke up with me she rang me crying wanting to be friends and maybe more, one time she said maybe we should stop being friends as we were breaking all the rules. i said ok and she said one day we will get back together anyway eventually i asked her back she said no claiming multiple reasons different lives ect. i was crushed i broke contact for months and after eight months not seeing each other she asked to be friends i agreed and met up with her. it felt really awkward i and i couldn't pin point why, i did care for her a lot because we were very close before and after the break up for a long time and i want to care for her but after thinking about it i feel its hard to be friends its like i resent her for breaking up with me and then rejecting me again, was the way she acted wrong, should i tell her how i feel or should i just give it time i need this resolved either by breaking contact or raising these issues because im really starting to resent her.. Link to post Share on other sites
belocchoc129 Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Well, if you really care about her, u shouldn't do that to the one you once loved. I dont know what really happened between u guys that led to an awkward breakup. But I think both persons in a relationship get hurt after a breakup, not only one side. Its just the way they show that, some really hurt inside, but they dont want to reveal that to anyone else. I know being friends again is hard after being rejected. You can stop seeing her or just tell her what u think. Don't let the feelings kill u inside and dont suffer it then resent her. Its a bad way. Link to post Share on other sites
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