justme43 Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Hi everyone, I have been living with a man for over 3 years he works out of town every week and we both have kids 5 in total. I have been very mistrusting of him from the start of this relationship. Things like secret phone calls, voice mail, I confronted him on all of it and he assured me it has stopped and I do believe it most ways it has but then again he works out of town. One thing that heads this mistrust is that i know he deals big perks from his connection with work and I do believe that he would be called a thief of sorts.Now everyone that he knows oh he is such a wonderful nice guy blah blah blah and yes he is a good man but then and again all his family don't like me and barely ever met me, so he must be saying something. So i guess i ruined my relationship b/c he left me 3 days ago by email from work and i'm the bad guy for being so untrusting??? Am I missing something here b/c all i do is cry and beat myself up but Mr. nice guythat isn't that nice b/c i know different not saying i'm perfect either but it's a two way street anyways i'm venting b/c i'm very very sad right now and scared and alone and about to be kicked out of my home Just someone please talk to me
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