Asking someone to hide and refusing to answer the door

[guest]

I am disturbed by the number of posts where the woman, while out on a date with her partner, is asked to hide because someone's knocking at the door.

 

Ladies, if your partner refuses to answer the door or asks you to hide while he does, chances are he's doing something he shouldn't be doing. It's called cheating.

 

Being asked to hide is NOT normal. It is not par for the course in any healthy, normal and honest relationship.

 

Please pay attention to this red flag when it comes up. For the love of God, do not ignore it.

[Iamhappy]

I wasn't asked to hide, but I was the one knocking on the door. And yes, it did turn out he was cheating - she was hiding in the bedroom.