Nelt Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 So i met this girl on an online game. We both 18, and after several long conversations we found so many things in common. Guess wat, a month later we declare that we in love and so the relationship began. The thing is I am a US citizen while she from Spain (i guess it happens before). well the rrelationship carry on til now is two months. we shared with each other hope, and dreams for the future. I never thought such love is possible but here it is. . also in a relationship like this, we have to depend alot on honesty and trust which is something we dont lack. But we have our own diffuculty, like 7 hrs diffent in time, and while it 6 pm here, it 1 am her place and we both have to get off our biology clock just to talk to each other. sometimes she we just stay up all night to talk... and i worry for it might make her life misable just to be wit me. I really love her, but should it go on... ... Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Once again, I think it's too short of a time to know if you TRUTHFULLY love each other, or if it's just the honeymoon stage still, but I could be wrong...who knows. But if you really do love her and she loves you then there should be no question if it should go on or not, because the two of you wouldn't be able to live without it. I know I can't live without my fiance, IslandGirl has been apart from her husband for YEARS now but is seemingly just as in love as if she saw him yesterday and is fighting for the opportunity to see him tomorrow(not literally tomorrow, but you know...), crimsonrose knows that although she's young her fiance is worth every little effort and thing she has to sacrifice, Elswyth is going through a terrible time because of administration but she's doing it because she knows that without her boyfriend her life would be much less happy. There's are so so many of us besides the ones I just named(right of the top of my head, of course), and we all have one thing in common. We have the will and the love for our SO's that bind us to them, regardless of the distance or the hoops we have to jump to be with them in the end. So if you really love her, what's the question? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Beautiful post, Rollercoasterr. Nelt, it IS possible. But I honestly think you need to arrange an IRL meeting asap because that will help clarify and strengthen many aspects of your relationship. Do you have any solid plans for such a meeting? Or will that not be possible in the near future? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nelt Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 x3, she going to New York this summer. I will abandon everything to get there. thank you Rollercoasterr that made up my mind xD Link to post Share on other sites
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