Do i have any hope

[Slacker]

My girlfriend of 8.5 years dumped me about 10 weeks ago, we were engaged and i never saw a problem but she started to become distant.She now has a new man he is 18 she is 26 and so am i. We came back from holiday and she told me she needed some time to think to see if she loved me or not,what she ment was it was over and she had this guy lined up.for the first week she would talk and text me but then it all stopped not that we dont know but i was bombarding her with text and phone calls buying her flowers writing letters etc.

Nothing was working,i found out that she had stopped taken the pill for 6 months but hadn't told me but everyone else knew,this really shocked me.any way we have a good mutual friend who i trust and 4 weeks ago she told me it was over to forget it and move on,The other night she said my ex was missing me dont know if she ment in a being around sort of way or more.

She told me if i was still interested to hang in there cause she thought she had realised the grass was not greener.We are both big footy fans and both have season tickets,she hadn't been to a game yet untill last weekend when she came along,we had a great time there was no distance between us at all,since then she has been on holiday with a friend,came back today and wants to go to an away game with me next week.Do you think she is missing me or maybe using me,and how must her boyfriend feel knowing she is going out to the football with her ex who misses her badly.

[UCFKevin]

GOod lord.

 

Stay away from her. Time to move on, as hard as it'll be. 8.5 years. Damn.

 

If she doesn't know if she loves you, she doesn't. You either know or you don't.

[She]

Either she's really confused or she's playing mind games. You should stay away from her so that you don't get hurt again. I would recommend cutting off all ties with her, because putting some distance between her and yourself is the only way you'll be able to move on.