Lucky_One Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 So, your Eternal Beloved is only an internet BF, and you still live with your parents? Well, that partially explains your writing style - caught up in a passionate distrust of adult society, with the cruel world conspiring (like your parents making you leave a computer alone for a weekend to go camping) to drive you away from your hand-fasted virtual world. Good luck. But I do have to say that I hope that your parents continue to take you out publicly, in an effort to get you acclimated to another world instead of the ActiveWorlds that you attempt to live in. Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 RB reminds me of capecod in this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t186067/ The difference being that, dreams aside, she's far less toxic and destructive. This "Eternal Beloved" stuff is hysterical; I say cut her some slack. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 Holy COW! This poor woman is what I was before I met E.B. I think I just found a confidant. Good Goddess. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 The power and control elements are blatant, in that dream. Do you lack power and control in real life?Are you normally a highly competitive individual?Do you look at attractive women and want to minimalize them?Are you an envious person?Do you put other women down a lot, particularly ones that your Eternally Beloved considers attractive? Link to post Share on other sites
Reggie Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Next stop Willoughby (for my Twilight Zone loving friends). Sounds like RB so much wants to exist somewhere other than where she is now or who she is now. Maybe someone will grant her wish... Willoughby? Maybe it's wishful thinking nestled in a hidden part of a man's mind, or maybe it's the last stop in the vast design of things, or perhaps, for a man like Mr. Gart Williams, who climbed on a world that went by too fast, it's a place around the bend where he could jump off. Willoughby? Whatever it is, it comes with sunlight and serenity, and is a part of the Twilight Zone. Nice. Reminds me of a Night Gallery episode, as well, the one with the former Nazi staring into a serene painting where he wants to be transported. At the crucial moment, he gets transported into the wrong painting, some horrific inferno type scene. (Hnads of Borgus Weems was a favorite, too). Lots of old character actors in those twilight zones. Link to post Share on other sites
Reggie Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 RB, this is pretty good entertainment. Does EB know about this stuff? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 So, your Eternal Beloved is only an internet BF, and you still live with your parents? Well, that partially explains your writing style - caught up in a passionate distrust of adult society, with the cruel world conspiring (like your parents making you leave a computer alone for a weekend to go camping) to drive you away from your hand-fasted virtual world. Good luck. But I do have to say that I hope that your parents continue to take you out publicly, in an effort to get you acclimated to another world instead of the ActiveWorlds that you attempt to live in. Yes and no. My parents FULLY support our relationship; they're even paying for his flight from England to the US for my 16th birthday. And by the way, We love each other more deeply and more passionately than I ever thought a teenager was capable of loving. Yes, I know it sounds hard to fathom that loving, caring parents would let their precious baby girl (Oh, the sarcasm! So thick you'd need an axe to cut it) meet up with an online BF from England. Well there's a price to pay: they will actually go through my MSN logs (The wretched old harpies) And observe every word we say. No matter. He's my fiance and my true love. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Yes and no. My parents FULLY support our relationship; they're even paying for his flight from England to the US for my 16th birthday. And by the way, We love each other more deeply and more passionately than I ever thought a teenager was capable of loving. Yes, I know it sounds hard to fathom that loving, caring parents would let their precious baby girl (Oh, the sarcasm! So thick you'd need an axe to cut it) meet up with an online BF from England. Well there's a price to pay: they will actually go through my MSN logs (The wretched old harpies) And observe every word we say. No matter. He's my fiance and my true love. Ah, you're 15 years old! That explains everything. How old is your fiance? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 And no, I'm not competitive. And my EB has never looked at another woman (to my knowledge) so there's not a jealously issue. And, I watch the Maury show, just to see these poor wretched cheated-on couples break down and go insane. For some reason I love a good, sad, drama-filled tragedy (as long as it isn't me) Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 He's a bit older. Don't worry, we have looked into EVERYTHING and as long as we do not have sex until my 18th and my parents are fine with the relationship, everything is legal. We looked into this when we first started dating Link to post Share on other sites
jwi71 Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Oh RB...I hope everything works out the way you dream it will. And if it doesn't, learn what you can, be a little wiser and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Yes and no. My parents FULLY support our relationship; they're even paying for his flight from England to the US for my 16th birthday. And by the way, We love each other more deeply and more passionately than I ever thought a teenager was capable of loving. Yes, I know it sounds hard to fathom that loving, caring parents would let their precious baby girl (Oh, the sarcasm! So thick you'd need an axe to cut it) meet up with an online BF from England. Well there's a price to pay: they will actually go through my MSN logs (The wretched old harpies) And observe every word we say. No matter. He's my fiance and my true love. Your parents don't mind that he doesn't even have a job and exists on the government dole? Wow - they ARE open-minded, and if I were you, I would be a bit more respectful of the vast amount of freedom that they ARE giving you. In my household, you wouldn't be on the computer the way you are, you wouldn't be playing a virtual reality game, and your BF wouldn't be using MY dime to finance HIS romances. Wretched old harpies, indeed. You should be ashamed. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 And no, I'm not competitive. And my EB has never looked at another woman (to my knowledge) so there's not a jealously issue. And, I watch the Maury show, just to see these poor wretched cheated-on couples break down and go insane. For some reason I love a good, sad, drama-filled tragedy (as long as it isn't me) But wasn't it just two weeks ago that he told you that he didn't know if he could remain faithful to you in a long-distance relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 This child is younger than both my kids. And here she is on an OW/OM forum. Doesn't seem to bode well for her future. Isn't there a way minors can be restricted from certain forums and parents have their heads examined? Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 I don't like having to talk like a modern woman instead of a 16-th century poet 16th Century poet? Excuse me but Chaucer you ain't (and he was actually 14th century) Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 I got two words for ya: CRACK WHORE Now, now SD - this is an innocent romantic we are dealing with.... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Maybe one day your writing will be as good as Danielle Steel. How old is your EB?? Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 they're even paying for his flight from England to the US for my 16th birthday. So you are 15! Wow! Didn't think you were that old and so wise. Oh please, give it at least another 10 years before you start talking about real love. Ps. sorry to other LSers but multi quote is not working for me tonight Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 So you are 15! Wow! Didn't think you were that old and so wise. Oh please, give it at least another 10 years before you start talking about real love. Ps. sorry to other LSers but multi quote is not working for me tonight Hmph!! How dare you talk to me about what true love is? The last time someone said that to me I got so depressed, thinking they were right, that I almost broke off the engagement! And thank the Goddess my Angel was there to guard the door so I couldn't walk away! He showed me that even if I AM only 15, he has had the experience and maturity that I lack. And it is he who will teach me. And I wouldn't have anyone else teach me, not for the world Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 The last time someone said that to me I got so depressed, thinking they were right, that I almost broke off the engagement At 15, that logic just shows your maturity level. That isn't a shot at you, it's just you have NO idea how much growing and changing you'll be doing in the next 20 years... You learn through your OWN LIFE experience, not just through ONE guy. To rely on ONE person to make you grow and mature is just nuts. Just my 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Yes sorry, what should I know. I am nearly 3 times your age and have experienced both good and bad in long term relationships (i.e. those that have gone beyond one term at school). Guess I should really listen to some kid to tell me what life is really like. Oh, hang on, maybe not. Maybe I should listen to the rest of the adults posting here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RomanticBride Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 Anne, I was in a 2-year relationship before, just to let you know. And 15-year-olds aren't as ignorant as you try to make us seem. You don't see "Txt tlk" coming from me, do you? I'm not an idiot. And many teens are much smarter than they'll let on. Most of them won't let it get to them when those who think they know more than they do take a cheap shot at them. Honestly, to say I'm a know-nothing because I'm 15? That's below the belt. Find a legitimate reason to insult me, if insult me you must. And reading your posts, you do have a thing for degrading people...goodness, an entire hate list? Well it isn't my business how some people live their lives, so carry on. But do try to carry on with a bit more sensitivity. Teenagers are certainly not more ignorant than adults, but we can be a bit more sensitive. Be careful who you insult. Words wound, luv. Whichwayisup: Thank you for at least being polite about it. I promise you I do see your point, but if anyone (other than same-sex confidants) other than the love of your life, tries to teach you about life in love, it may lead you down some depressing paths. Read my previous post and you'll see what I mean. I asked a simple question and put myself into a situation where I almost had an EA http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2095414#post2095414 Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Words wound, luv. Oh my goodness, you have caught me out. By the way the word is spelt L-O-V-E I am really not trying to hurt but just want to point out that you are only 15 and what you think you are feeling is absolutely nothing compared to what you will feel at 30, 45, etc. You are just a child - do not think you have found the perfect love now. To be honest, there is no such thing as anyone here on LS will tell you Link to post Share on other sites
jwi71 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 RB, With all due respect... You have SO much to learn. Especially in love. Sorry...but you are NOT old enough to even legally engage in sexual intercourse (in my state anyway). There's a reason for that. I too, in fact all of us, was 15, in love and knew it all. Believe me...if I could go back in time and bitch slap myself some 20 odd years ago...I would. Oh the ignorance and the arrogance. Its funny NOW. Sorry Mom. You are NOT old enough to hold a job w/o restrictions, you do NOT have the education to get one nor do you have the life EXPERIENCE to get one. Its simply the truth. Sorry, but working at the mall won't cut it. I know it seems like I am attacking you...I'm not trying to be that way. BUT...you DO need a reality check. At 15, you know virtually nothing. And that's true of ALL 15 year olds. Like I said...I was 15 and it was true of me then. I would ask that you slow down. Don't be in such a hurry to be an adult because being an ADULT sucks. I wish I was 15 again, with Mommy and Daddy standing by, paying the mortgage, paying the insurance, car, gas, bills, putting food on the table, saving money for college and retirement and funerals...oh my... How old is your bf? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Whichwayisup: Thank you for at least being polite about it. I promise you I do see your point, but if anyone (other than same-sex confidants) other than the love of your life, tries to teach you about life in love, it may lead you down some depressing paths. Read my previous post and you'll see what I mean. I asked a simple question and put myself into a situation where I almost had an EA I will go read your other thread.. It's great if you can learn through other people's experiences (aka your female friends) too, not just with whomever you're dating. Gals talk and let eachother in on stuff, so that's a good way of learning and understanding men abit better. I'm glad you're willing to listen, even if some people are more harsh, they do care. Just don't tie yourself down forever to one guy. Right now he is your "life" but I can promise you, in 10 years you'll think and feel differently. And so might he. Link to post Share on other sites
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