Such a beautiful dream!

[Kasan]

What exactly is a fragile princess??? :confused:

 

Delicate teen? :lmao: Hmm...my kids were never delicate teens! That's a new one for me............

 

Perhaps your parents are luring your beloved to come see you so they can report him to the police for an "indecent assault on a minor" charge or rape should things go too far.

 

Praying that's the case anyway...........

 

And no way would I allow a 25 year old man to visit and chat daily with my 15 year old daughter.

 

How is school going for you? Do you participate in school events?

[RomanticBride]

Kasan- "assault charge"?? Please don't talk like that. It's rather...vulgar to me. And school? Decent. Staying home ill today. I'm in Choir, art and drama.

 

Speaking of vulgarity- Owl, I'm sorry that my saying "screw you" offended you. But really, how would you like it if someone thought YOU were a troll?

[Athena]

Listen, you shouldn't be on these boards in the first place, not only because you have no marital infidelity problems, or OW status, but because you have zero life experience too.

If you are in love, then find a board on love. I don't know why you feel the need to write to much older people than yourself on issues that do not involve you.

 

Frankly, your first thread on the drama of your own 'suspected' cheating thoughts on your never-met-in-real life "fiance" made me, and others here, think you were a bit loopy.

 

So then you divulge that you are 15 years old. Whoopi-de-doo... now run away and play will you? You are a drama queen, and if you are still hanging around here on the wrong boards, which do not concern you or your fantasy life, then you must obviously be a sucker for negative attention.

 

And get a life, will you? You have an online bf you've never touched or kissed, and you are on here trying to convince a bunch of educated and wise adults of your ability to love some guy. Go out and get involved with REAL teens. It's unhealthy what you are doing here.

[Owl]

Well...here's the thing, RB.

 

You come to this site attempting totell an entire forum of adults that you know more than they do about life and love.

 

The reality is...you're still so young and inexperienced that it's impossible for you to even begin to comprehend the gaps in your knowledge and experience.

 

You're too young to even know what you don't know.

 

And yet you come here trying to demonstrate that you know more than people who have lived/loved/lost for several decades longer than you've been alive.

 

It's easy to see why people suspect a troll...because this is exactly the kind of tactic that a troll would use to stir up trouble.

 

On the belief that you're not a troll...I'd stand by what I said earlier about you being a spoiled 15 year old princess, with parent's who aren't strong enough to protect you...especially not from yourself. A great example of that would be your admittance that you talk to other adults in that same "screw you" fashion.

 

I've raised four kids to healthy adulthood...and they wouldn't have CONSIDERED that approach.

 

Here's the thing...you can quote medievel life all you want...but you're simply not taking something into account here.

 

YOU weren't born then. You weren't raised in that time period. You're not Edgar Allen Poe or any of those others who lived a completely different life by the time that they were your age.

 

They had far, far more life experience by the time that they were 15 than you could have possibly experienced. Take it from someone who lived on the streets as a kid for about half a year at your very age.

 

What applied to people living in that time period does NOT equate to you...in any fashion.

 

 

 

What do you want from those of us here on LS? What do you hope to gain from posting here? What's the point of all this???

[RomanticBride]

I want someone to say something like, "Yes, I married my 32-year-old fiance at 17. It was a wonderful match. We're happy together and have 3 kids and...."

 

And, when I first posted this here, it was because I had had a dream of being the other woman and thought this a good place to post it. I had no idea it would turn into a lengthy argument about my credibility.

[Owl]

I want someone to say something like, "Yes, I married my 32-year-old fiance at 17. It was a wonderful match. We're happy together and have 3 kids and...."

 

Fair enough, an honest but highly unrealistic expectation. The only person I can think of who might potentially have some kind of similar story would be Lizzie60...but I'll leave it to her to decide it's similarity to yours or not.

 

But even her situation didn't last. Because the reality is...you're so young, your personality isn't even completely formed yet. You're not even close to being the person that you'll be at your "eternally beloved's" age.

 

Which is why the kind of scenario you're hoping to hear good news about is pretty much non-existant. In other words...there's a reason why there are laws against marrying a 15 year old in most countries.

 

And, when I first posted this here, it was because I had had a dream of being the other woman and thought this a good place to post it. I had no idea it would turn into a lengthy argument about my credibility.

 

As I said...look at the "style" you post in, combined with your seriously confrontational attitude and firm belief that you know more than anyone else here...why would you expect any kind of different response?

[Athena]

I want someone to say something like, "Yes, I married my 32-year-old fiance at 17. It was a wonderful match. We're happy together and have 3 kids and...."

 

And, when I first posted this here, it was because I had had a dream of being the other woman and thought this a good place to post it. I had no idea it would turn into a lengthy argument about my credibility.

 

When you first posted to us, you neglected to mention that you were a 15 year old cyberly engaged to a 25 year old 'man'!!! So if you are not truthful with us, how do you suppose you will get any kind of advice for your situation?

 

Besides, you will do better to go to the "Dating" board Sub-Forums: Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy.... NOT infidelity, OW, and Marriage boards -- all three places you have posted on! Like your online A with a 'grown man' your indulgences here in adult activities is out of line. I HIGHLY doubt your parents know you post here. If they do, then as Owl said, they are not doing the right job on you.

[stampdaddy]

I started to reply, but then remembered my own advice...

 

"If you don't feed them, they will starve."

 

 

so why do you keep feeding the Troll?

[Owl]

I think sometimes I'm part troll as well...must have been on my father's side...because somedays I just can't resist a challenge.

 

[Athena]

so why do you keep feeding the Troll?

 

S-I-G-H!!! She said she was Leaving!

bye!

[GorillaTheater]

I think sometimes I'm part troll as well...must have been on my father's side...because somedays I just can't resist a challenge.

 

 

As a more-or-less reformed troll, I appreciate good work. It sometimes doesn't occur to me that the "troll post" is serious. Or at least as serious as a 15-year-old knucklehead/drama princess can be.

[stefspets]

I couldn't read this whole thread because it was way too long, but jesus, change the background on that blog to something you can read text over and get rid of that god forsaken side scroll.

[angie2443]

so why do you keep feeding the Troll?

 

She might not be a troll. She might be a troubled teen with uncarring parents who is acting out. Some aspects of her story sound simular to mine when I was a teen. She might be a teen who's parents never wanted to deal with the responsibility of parenting. She might be acting out and seeking older men because she desperately wants a parental figure in her life. She might be wrighting so dramaticaly because many teen girls go through that phase.

 

Then again, she could just be a troll and laughing at all the responses she's getting here.

[Athena]

Then again, she could just be a troll and laughing at all the responses she's getting here.

 

Yes - whether she is a troubled teen, or a troll, this is not a board for her entertainment... frankly, I do not see the relevance of her thread to this board.

She is an attention seeking child. I don't know why she isn't seeking attention in her Real Life from people her own age. There is something very unhealthy about her being on here.

[stampdaddy]

So on that note: Hey kids, let's go play somewhere else... I started a Cook Book thread over at the watercooler none of you have commented on (hint, hint). Just tell me where we are moving to and I will see you there

[bentnotbroken]

I have clothes older than RB and they have seen more life than she has, so forgive me if I don't respect someone who has done very little to earn it. You don't take care of yourself, you are still dependent on your parents for your survival. You don't know anything other than the life your parents provide for you. Just like the rest of us when we were minors. Both of my children are older than you and there is no way either knew enough now to deal with all the crap that real relationships require. I'm out.

[jwi71]

There is something very unhealthy about her being on here.

 

Couldn't agree more.

[Lizzie60]

Romantic.. may I suggest to you a much better board for your age range..

It's LOULOU... it's mainly for teens.. it's a great place for teens to talk about their love, passions, dramas, bfs, make-up, fashion.

[Lostgurl]

From what i've read, I'm starting to think that she's not a troll either. Shes just crazy.

 

Insane in the membrane?

[Owl]

Romantic.. may I suggest to you a much better board for your age range..

It's LOULOU... it's mainly for teens.. it's a great place for teens to talk about their love, passions, dramas, bfs, make-up, fashion.

 

And THIS is the best advice given on this thread to date!!!

 

Constructive, well meant, and helpful for all.

[stampdaddy]

from what i've read, i'm starting to think that she's not a troll either. Shes just crazy.

 

Insane in the membrane?

 

 

insane in the brain

insane in the membrane

crazy insane, got no brain

[GorillaTheater]

insane in the brain

insane in the membrane

crazy insane, got no brain

 

"bad bad brain, bad bad brain" - Joey Ramone

[Lizzie60]

I don't think she's crazy.. in fact, I think she's brilliant.. She's probably one of the smartest kid in her class..

 

RB... you are smart, cute.. and I'm sure some LSers are just pissed at you cause they feel you're probably smarter than they are..

 

To be honest with you.. I don't think you'll enjoy it here.. unless you have really 'thick' skin.. and you're quite young.. so it could damage you more than do you good.

 

Other LSers enjoy being the 'kitchen' psychologists...

 

It's too funny.. but honestly.. I like you..

[GorillaTheater]

RB... you are smart, cute.. and I'm sure some LSers are just pissed at you cause they feel you're probably smarter than they are..

 

Oh, I have no doubt that she's smarter than I am. When I was 15 I was consumed with ploys to score booze and trying to figure out what on earth it took to get laid. I take one look at her writing and I know she's brilliant.

 

But I still fear for her heart.

[Lizzie60]

Oh, I have no doubt that she's smarter than I am. When I was 15 I was consumed with ploys to score booze and trying to figure out what on earth it took to get laid. I take one look at her writing and I know she's brilliant.

 

But I still fear for her heart.

 

That's why I advise her to stay away from LS.. it's not a good place for her.. some mean adults on here.. that can make more damage than a heartbreak.. She could be a very fragile little soul... for crual adults to wander around.