xenonsrt10 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 ****SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT I HAD TO GET ALL THE DETAILS IN AND SORRY FOR THOSE WHO HAVE READ THIS ALREADY I NEEDED TO CHANGE THE TITLE!!******** So there is girl I've been friends with for over a year and although we dont live in the state, we have seen each other a few times and talk very regularly on AIM and the phone (regularly as in weekly). We get along very well and always are making fun of eachother, saying perverted things, inside jokes, etc. Although we are good friends, I have always thought we could work well together and have really good chemistry as we are both quite quirky in our own regards and she is one of the few people that I feel that really be myself with since i have lots of funny quirks that people just dont relate and understand to. i recently went to visit said person and here are some details i picked up: -she happpens to talk to a girl that i had a relationship with (which is one of her friends) the morning i come in town to hang out and she hasnt talked to this girl in a few months. it seems very interesting that she would talk to her the day i come in and earlier in the morning. -she is driving me car to a spot she calls "romatic" to show me it in her town and says "no to be awkward...." and those type lines -we clearly are flirting especially when she is mimicking me, spraying purfume on me, throwing things at me and daring me to do all these things which i do becuase i find it hilarious. -she locks me out of her house to irritate me, calls me a girl and other immature insults, and other silly things. -she puts a large picture of herself on my laptop background (WHY?) -she has mentioned to me before that she finds me physically attractive upon some AIM conversations we have when we arent hanging out and i have acknowleged her attractiveness to her (obviously we didnt say more that that) -ive met her in person twice now and after the first time i can she has asked me specifically when i can come back to see her -she always is poking/making fun of me and i do the same ***she poked me on facebook the other day and is denying she did at and saying someone used her account and must have poked me*** -she wants me to go to prom with her it seems like she is conflicted or something becuase she always mentions things like "friendship" and stuff when it is clear we are friends. its almost seems like she is in denial. for example, we rented a movie and she insists its a horror movie and that i sit by her. she has to say the position she is sitting in is the "were not together position" when like no one is in the room and it is obvious that we are "friends" currently. over-clarifying=? what do you guys think? thanks for reading we also text a good deal saying we dont see eachother much. she is my most frequent "texter" in my phone and ive only know her for one year. 50-50 she text me sometimes and i text her sometimes. and recently she has been texting me in the early morning and in one text she wished me a great day. and she always responds to my texts and apologizes if she is late with them and explains why. BUT!! what if i were to tell you she might be in a relationship but has openly told me she probably will not work and she is not talking to this guy because he is over 10 years older than her because her parents said so. so that is where it gets odd....but however doesnt mean im screwed right?? what should i do now? should i just admit my feelings for her and hope she likes me back? Im mean I feel like there is considerable chemistry there and am just a a cross-roads because i want to be her friend still after i pop the "i like you" to her Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Uh you're not even in the same state, why bother? You should probably find a girl you can see at least once a week. Link to post Share on other sites
Author xenonsrt10 Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 bump hey guys i need some responses please! Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Well, prom indicates high school, so I assume both of you are under 18. I can also assume that her parents have good reason (and perhaps statutory assistance) to want the other guy out of their daughter's life. Can you keep this interaction light and friendly and date girls in your locale? At your age, this is what I would do. No need yet for any serious sort of relationship. Too much will happen in your life in the next few years. Enjoy the fun with this girl, sincerely, and do not take it seriously nor try to interpret "signs". Just enjoy. Link to post Share on other sites
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