So...

[Rollercoasterr]

So I'm tired and I'm stressed out. My finals are coming up. He's tired and stressed because his finals are coming up as well...These next 6 days are going to be hellish and they can't get here fast enough.

 

I want to get started on our paperwork, but I don't even know where to start on that. It's just so overwhelming.

 

Even little wedding things that we used to do just seem harder than usual. Feels like we've been trying to pick out a first dance song for a year.

 

Oh well. Maybe when we both feel better. Just needed to rant a bit.

[Lucky_One]

Chantal Kreviazuk - Feels Like Home.

 

(And she's from Manitoba!)

 

Things WILL get better. I promise!

[Lovin a scrapper]

It sounds to me that once finals are over with then the breathing can begin again and all will be lots better!!!

 

Im having first dance song issues as you might know. Im gonna just let that come to us and Ill bet that will work itself out when we are least expecting it.

 

Keep smilin and looking forward to all of those great things that are coming and Im sure that you will feel better!!!

[Island Girl]

I am sorry Rollercoasterr.

 

Maybe just for the next few days do not focus on the wedding.

 

Get your finals all done with.

Talk to each other if you feel like it. But do not put pressure on yourselves to make everything the same as it usually is.

 

There have been times of immense stress on my side.

And when these times have happened I have found it is prudent to focus on myself and reduce the contact with my husband.

Otherwise I can end up snapping at him for stupid insignificant things.

 

When he tries to say the right thing it is always the wrong one and I am telling him "you don't understand" more often than not.

Of course he isn't here experiencing exactly what I am.

But even if he WAS here he still wouldn't experience EXACTLY what I am.

So for a few days I just focus on myself and when we do talk I just keep things about the two of us and tell him I love him.

 

This 6 day period will be over soon.

 

And then you can get on with being giddy and so so in love you can't stand it.

 

Your song will come to you. You'll find something the two of you either love or can live with.

In the end the wedding plans and how it will be will never be as important and becoming husband and wife.

So let the details work out as they will.

 

I hope you are finding today easier.

 

And I hope these days just fly by.