warner0137 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Me & my bf have been together 3 and a half years, and recently i have started to become jealous of other girls, i kno he loves me and thinks the world of me i have no reason not to trust him i just dont kno why i feel like this, it eats me up and its always on my mind. i am jelous because we both work diff hrs and days so some weeks are harder than others to see eachother, he works with girls his age and regulary gives them lifts to and from work and he spends most of his time with them at work coz he does long hrs and says there really nice people etc, i have never met them they have bfs, i feel jelous and i dnt kno why?? i trust him but i feel the urge to wanna read his txts to see what they chat bout i kno its nothing more than work talk or something, i feel like i cnt ring him on his breaks coz he mite be talking to his work friends and not have time to talk to me and i hate talking to him when other people are around,i kno im being silly and everythings genuine, i just want to sort it out coz its upsetting me and it will start to affect our relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
DunnoWhat Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 Just trust him. Don't worry about it because worrying solves nothing. In the end if he does cheat theres nothing you can do about it. He'll do it if he wants to. Link to post Share on other sites
pleasedontbreakme Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 If your relationship is serious, talk to him and bring it up. Just be straight-forward and be like "Listen there's something I want to talk about. I'm a bit uncomfortable... [fill-in the blank]" Don't use the word jealous though, and tell him how you really feel. I feel that using the word jealous is like making yourself seem vulnerable. Like I said if you two are serious, he should want to work things out, or reassure you. But be gentle about how you say things to him, so that he doesn't take it as as attack like "Who are you talking to?! Let me see your phone! I don't trust you". This worked with my current relationship, and we try to keep communication open so that these feelings don't build up and cause problems later on in our relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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