ilikegirls Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i have made a few threads in here about this girl i like http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2092625#post2092625 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t184961/ this is everthing in a nut shell 1. girl has a BF, they break up 2. i get really close to girl 3. we both like each other 4. i wait to long (possible friendzone) 5. we drift apart a little 6. then get really close (closer than before) 7. i tell her i like her.. she tells me she doesnt want to lose me, if we were to break up 8. still close (flirting etc.) 9. she asks me to prom (both had fun) AND NOW... a couple days ago i found out that her and her ex got back together after 7 months of being apart (she didnt tell me, i just found out) so since i found this out i decided to try and talk to her less..after a week of not seeing each other (i usually see her everyday) i finally run into her she asks me where ive been, i told her around, basically thats all we said to eachother. then like 10 min later i get a text her: "can we talk one of these days? ignoring me wont make things any better" me: "i wasnt really ignoring you, but ok" her: "ok nvm then" me: "but we should still talk" me: "actually nvm" her: "i dont want to sit and talk with someone who couldent give a **** about me. so we can either go on like this or try and fix it. your choice" me: "what are you talking about i dont care about you. you were number one to me, call me whenever and we'll talk" HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 If you value her friendship you better forget any romantic hopes and talk to her as a friend. The bottom line is she just doesn't have a romantic interest in you so you either accept it, and start dating other women, or lost the friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilikegirls Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 so i talked with her today this is what she said: -she was truly sorry and she didnt mean to lead me on or anything -that she feels really bad -she really did like me, but when i asked her out she said she just wanted to be friends, cuz she still had feelings for her ex -she hates not talking to me (havent talking in about 2 weeks) -she said i treated her like a princess -she said what she did was extremely shady, selfish and bitchy, and she is sorry *the whole time she was about to cry i asked her if she were me what would you do, she said i wouldent talk to me anymore so i dont know what to do! please help Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 i asked her if she were me what would you do, she said i wouldnt talk to me anymore Call her bluff, don't talk to her until you're at terms with what she has done with you. I wouldn't exactly be talking to her either. It's hard, but eventually you realize that what the other person does is really hurtful to you. I think you are already starting to realize this. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Hey, when she's done with her ex, suggest she look you up. You *might* be available. Once women get used to stringing men along, it becomes a lifelong habit. Nip her in the bud Link to post Share on other sites
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