violeta09 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 after reading a few peoples input about the guy I just dumped I did some serious thinking. The more I thought the angrier I became. I texted the son of a B___ and let him have it. I unloaded everything that had been bottled up for so long. He is married so I advised him to keep his D___ in his pants or here is an idea have his wife B___ him. Told him thanks for making me feel like the dirt under his shoe, but that I should have never allowed all that to happen. I told him I was now going to deleat his number from my phone just like I would deleat him from my life. Told him to do the same and to never ever think he'll have the opportunity to use me for any purpose. I told him that first I was sad and hurt but now I'm pissed and empowered. I took back my dignity some what and that felt good. I did deleat his number so I wont fall into temptation. Today is 13 days and I'm sure I gave him food for thought. Him and I were friends long before we got involved. He isn't in love with me but I know he did have some affection, at least once. So all I said to him must have had some kind of an impact. Did I want to hurt him back? you betcha!!!!!! I know he feels we had an understanding and I'm expecting too much. I'm sure he blames me for everything. Even if it did or didn't hurt him, I got it off my chest. WHAT A RELIEF !!! I had said in the beginning if he came to me to work it out, I would take him back. NOT NOW!!! Its way to late. Let him work on his marriage, cheat with someone else, I really don't care. I just know I'm through being his door mat!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigCow Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Sounds like you deserve to be treated much better violeta09, good for you for finally closing that door! Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 All together now....Awwww....a married man dumped you and you feel terrible right? You don't have my sympathy and why isn't this posted on the OW/OM forum? Link to post Share on other sites
Author violeta09 Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 I know I did this to myself. I'm not looking for you or anyone to feel sorry for me. Don't be so quick to judge. Remember there are things you don't know. I was in a bad place and so was he, thats how it happened. We were friends for 12 years. I simply write in order to vent and heal not for any other reason. Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Well why don't you tell your whole story then because from what I have read you are a disturbed person that isn't worth any of my time. Link to post Share on other sites
UCLAMike Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 im gonna have to go with the poster above. im not here to condemn you but there's really no point in trying to justify a relationship with a married man. i hope you heal fast and learn from this experience. perhaps next time you are wiser with more integrity. best luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author violeta09 Posted May 3, 2009 Author Share Posted May 3, 2009 Well why don't you tell your whole story then because from what I have read you are a disturbed person that isn't worth any of my time. stop with the holier than thou and stop giving me your time.... Link to post Share on other sites
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