Bogo123 Posted October 19, 2003 Share Posted October 19, 2003 Me and my girl have been going out for almsot 5 years. Im 24 and she is 23. We just broke up about 3 weeks ago and im having a really hard time. First of all, it was me that kinda broke it off because I wanted some space, and I also wanted to hang out with the boys more. Also i havent been the best boyfriend and was kinda negligent and didnt show much affection the past 6 mos of our relationship. she felt like she was putting in all the effort. She was also more serious about the relationship and was thinking long term(marriage). Well after 2 weeks had past with no contact, I went to her palce to get back with her because I realized how much i miss her and want to be with her. I learned from my mistakes and i knew i wanted to be a good bf. But she told me she wants to be alone right now and needs to learn how to be independent. What does that mean? I told her I loved her and asked for another chance but she doesnt want to get back together but wants to remain friends. I havent talked to her since that day, its been almost a week. Any suggestions on how to get her back? should i write her a letter? send her flowers? call her or wait for her to call me? Im just afraid i will lose her forever and she will slowly get used to me not being around. If i stay friends with her, will a chance to get back with her be less likely because she mght just get used to just seeing me as a friend? I dont know what to do. How do I regain her love and trust again? Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 19, 2003 Share Posted October 19, 2003 I think shes lost her feelings for you,she is trying to get used to the idea that you're not there.I really don't have any suggestions on how to get her back,because you already tried. She has not called you. It sounds like its over. Link to post Share on other sites
niko1999 Posted October 19, 2003 Share Posted October 19, 2003 She needs to be more independent? What does that mean? Waht did it mean when you needed space and to spend mor time with the boys? That is exactly what she is saying. She needs to be away from you right now, b/c you just tore her heart into a million little pieces, becuae you needed to be more independent. So leave her be. If she is going to call you, she will call you. If not then moveon with your life. And remember your mistakes in your next relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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