selfish..?

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Met a lovely guy 3 weeks ago. Very kind, thoughtful. He did many things for me within the short space of time we had known each other. It was a very intense 3 weeks . He treated me great on my birthday, which was 1 week after meeting him, purchasing me a 50 inch LCD tv, he bought me flowers and wine and food shopping everytime he came by my house, a hi fi system, started to decorate the house and anything else in the home he saw i didnt have, he bought, and i asked him for for NOTHING..It was all done from the kindness of his heart and no one has treated me like this in such a short space of time, ever, in my life.

I know its all material things, but i just wanted to stress what type of person he was,especially since i recently moved into a new place and there were certain things i didnt have, which he spotted and voluntarily went and bought without my knowledge. Well, the first 2 weeks of dating he showed me a lot of affection, etc. Towards the 3rd week i noticed that i had to start asking for a hug and kiss or i didnt get one. He seemed to become a bit too relaxed and settled too quickly and i explained to him this wasn't good..

If i dont talk to him, there is no conversation. I don't expect him to talk just for the sakes of talking, but id love to hear his voice once in a while, other than car talk. Sometimes we are sat in the house and the silence can go on for hours if i dont say something. Im not a person to talk so much either, but when he comes to visit for 3 days i would like to know there is a presence with me in the house. I know he works very hard, but relaxing in bed and uttering a few

words to me now and again shouldnt take much effort.

When i asked him today whether he could talk to me a little bit more, he said "about what?". I told him that sometimes i get bored sitting indoors with him and there is no converstain or anything(he's just confined to his laptop or sleeping). He became very defensive and accused me of saying he was boring, which of course i DID mean.

He said "Ok then, ill just get ready and go home". And he did. I didnt take it too seriously at first, as i didnt think he meant it. Then the front door closed and i assumed he'd gone to put the rubbish out as he had asked for a plastic bag prior to that, and i didnt expect him to go just like that. I waited 10 mins and didnt hear him come back, i knew he'd gone.

Sent him a text message apologising and asking if he could come back to the house. He sent a message back saying he was going straight home as he wanted to be alone . I asked if this meant we were over. He said im free to search for whatever im looking for.

Immensely regret what i said to him, and maybe i was a bit harsh. Selfish maybe? Just wanted your opinions as i think i may have lost a great guy. Hope i haven't been soooo stupid!