SingNdAbLews Posted October 20, 2003 Share Posted October 20, 2003 [font=times new roman][/font][color=blue][/color] Trip on this one people! My BF tells me the other nite that he is going to go out and he didn't know when he would be back. (Probably early morning this was Friday nite) Well, he said he didn't know what he wanted out of the relationship and wanted sometime alone to think about it. (He wasn't alone he was with 2 other couples FRIENDS) He said he had a really good time and I was happy for him really. Then I said when he got home the next day at 9 am. Well did you think about it? And he said he wanted to give us another chance. We have had our ups and downs needless to say. So yeah bringing up the past was our major downfall. E-n-way I said ok but we need to wipe the slate clean and #1 rule is no bringing up the past ever. He agreed and we had a wonderful quiet evening. Well when we got up this morning he and I were chit chatting and I told him a good friend of mine (Whom he knows as well) was going to give me a big sum of money next month as a gift because I do him a lot of favors all the time (nonsexual and in the form of work) and my BF flipped a script on me and started putting my friend down. And I just said "That at least he doesn't use me like some of his friend had. And then he said my low life friends remember? And I will never forgive you for saying that." So then we got into this ugly fight and it was UGLY I was crying and he left. Then he came back with this couple (None of the others from that frieday) And wanted to go out later this evening and all was fine and dandy. I am so confused that I dont know if I should just say No you brought up the past again and so its over or just go on with the fine and dandy. I really love him very much. Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 20, 2003 Share Posted October 20, 2003 You did lay the rules down and he agreed,its really in your hand if you want to follow up on what you said.It probably be best to show him you ain't kidding. Is he untrusting???(Does he have any reason not to believe you???) Link to post Share on other sites
Author SingNdAbLews Posted October 20, 2003 Author Share Posted October 20, 2003 Originally posted by VASH THE STAMPEDE Is he untrusting???(Does he have any reason not to believe you???) No he is very trust worthy and honest. He and I have been togther for around 10 months and I was just thinking because were both so young that maybe he was scared. So I let him think about it. We did go out to shoot pool last night but he was very quiet and wouldnt speak to me really so I went outside to smoke and then just got in the car and waited. He finally came out and we left. Did not say a word all the way home. I went to bed when we got here he followed suit held me close. Woke up made love and that was that. The sex has been kind of dull because we are staying with a friend temporarily til we save money for our own place. I just am worried after we get a place is he going to change his mind again? Link to post Share on other sites
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