bentnotbroken Posted May 5, 2009 Share Posted May 5, 2009 So you're saying the relationship is just as wrong if a woman was to be involved with a MM who has not seen his wife in months/years; they're not even living together anymore even though they are technically still married? Yes. If he didn't want to be married...divorce. How do I know this, I have brother who did the same thing. And he was wrong until he divorced his wife. Period. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted May 6, 2009 Share Posted May 6, 2009 exactly, what if you are with a guy who is married but he and his wife are living in separate residence and have not seen each other for a very long time? not every affair is the same. What is the point of you saying "not every affair is the same"? You would be no less indifferent to being with someone elses husband no matter what the circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 We are no longer together. This was his first A and he loves his wife dearly. He ended it b/c he didn't love me and considers me the biggest mistake of his life. I wonder if your husband would feel the same way. Link to post Share on other sites
SierraRose Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 My exMM was an very close old friend from the past. He said he had been looking for me for years, found me on my school alum website....He initiated, he traveled 1200 miles to see me. Me? stupid... fell hook, line and sinker. Just when I was hooked, he couldn't "handle" what he was doing anymore and told his W everything... NC ever since... Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 So my point in all this is what constitutes a marriage? To define adultery, you must first define what a marriage is first. Wow, wow, wow. What a load of bunk! Define what marriage is? Seriously? Do they have a marriage license on file in the county registrars office somewhere? IF so, their married. Its pretty simple. Before long, you'll start with the "spiritual marriage" voodoo to redefine your affair. Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 exactly, what if you are with a guy who is married but he and his wife are living in separate residence and have not seen each other for a very long time? not every affair is the same. You still call them married. My aunt and uncle were separated for 7 years. Then, one day they just got back together. I'm not going to claim that they are totally in love or even happy. My point is that they are still married. Going on 50 years too. Link to post Share on other sites
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