Owl Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 Athena, you and I have posted similar advice to others for a good while now. I'm willing to bet you already know my advice. You've already been asked (and answered) the one question I ask the most here... "Does this bother you enough to force a change, or are you willing to accept your life as it is now?" You know he won't change. You've decided that you cannot accept the situation as it stands now. Therefore, your plan on filing makes total sense to me. Personally, I'd suggest you file BEFORE he gets back to your area for his visit...and make it clear to him that he's going to have to find other living arrangements while he's there, because he's most certainly NOT staying in your home during that time. Don't blindside him with it after the graduation...blast him with it BEFORE he arrives, so that he has to make other arrangements...so that you aren't forced to figure out where he or you should stay...make it his problem instead. Don't worry about him...he's clearly gotten very good at "taking care of himself". Take care of yourself instead. Link to post Share on other sites
hopefulInFuture Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Dear Athena, I just saw one of your responses to another thread and I was wondering how you've been doing. It's been a while you have not posted an update on what's been going on with your husband. Link to post Share on other sites
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