Bender Posted October 20, 2003 Share Posted October 20, 2003 dear to whom it my concern, I've really never done this, but i'm need help. So ok its like this my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and two month, during that year I broke it off becuase i was to scared of falling in love "i mean we say "LOVE", but I haven't felt love that this before". then recently we got back togther because i relized that this love that i was felling is a good thing, and then a couple of days ago she told me that she wanted to break it off.. so i why... she replied that she need time to think about herself, then today i ask her if it involed another guy and well ... it did.. this guy Grant, well she is in love with him, even before we got togther, well he has been at the war, and is coming back in a couple of months.. she told me she dosen't know what she wants... i didn't yell or curse, or called her bad names... i just need to know, how to win her heart back.. like once was, before was spilt up... the relastionship is strong.. in a sense.. i just don't want to lose her.. please any advice you could give me i would greatly admire it... Link to post Share on other sites
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 Shes got her mind made up,even before you two got together. Knowing this and leading you on was very wrong of her. She said she love this guy,so I really suggest you move on and forget about her. Link to post Share on other sites
jalexy Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 Originally posted by VASH THE STAMPEDE Shes got her mind made up,even before you two got together. Knowing this and leading you on was very wrong of her. She said she love this guy,so I really suggestion you move on and forget about her. Link to post Share on other sites
2Confused4thought Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 Well I think that if she is "in love" with this guy who is/was at war then looks like she only turned to you in the meantime and now that her "love" is coming back that's who she will be with. As a woman I can say that if she really "loves" this other guy then you have no chance but then again she loved him then and time has past, maybe he has changed or she has changed and it might not work. That would leave you a chance but only as 2nd choice, I don't think you want that. Your best bet is to find out if she has been communicating with this guy, has she let this guy think that she has waited for him, do they have plans of getting back together when he arrives. You need to find out what they have going on, she needs to be blunt and honest with you and you need to be the one to choose if you are willing to "let her decide", I personally say you should never give someone that much power. Another question is "Did she ever love you?", did she ever tell you that? She obviously has admitted loving this other guy but has she ever used that expression about you and if so.......how many guys has she loved and maybe she is too confused and doesn't even know what love is. Good luck hun, you seem like a nice guy. Ciao xox Link to post Share on other sites
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