Author griffinchicken53 Posted June 23, 2009 Author Share Posted June 23, 2009 i forgot about this thread. now i feel like the women on here have made me out to be a shallow guy. Link to post Share on other sites
ON MY OWN Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 No I dont necessarily think your shallow, its just I get a chuckle out of it. It is not just this thread, I always have thought this though. So dont worry. They are a part of us and I guess Ill actually be flattered men are so anamoured with that part of our anatomy. Just think about how women feel about men, we are quite a bit more in the dark about the male anatomy, as to we have no clue as to what we are getting into, LMAO Have a wonderful day Mr. Griffin ( GC53 )!!! No offense on this end sweetie! Link to post Share on other sites
Gus Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 i need to know so i can give the appearance that i'm much larger in the pants. Just make sure you put the potato in the front and not the back. Link to post Share on other sites
way_2_tired Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 I must admit this is the first post i've read that made me laugh. Men and their boob obsessions. You know in some cultures they are really just seen as infant feeders. Quite a few women actually get annoyed by men who are obsessed with them. I agree with other countries who consider hips, thighs, waist, bottom, to be way more sexy. If my bf was flirting with me, he would get a lot further paying attention to my waist/hip curves than mangling my breasts. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 I usually don't read "boob" threads...or admit to reading them , but I gotta comment. First, IMO, if a woman is showing cleavage or boobs, then she should not be offended if a man looks at them. I used to avoid looking, but now while I don't stare, I don't think it is offensive to glance at them in appreciation. Staring is offensive, but glancing at breasts in appreciation should actually be a compliment to the woman who has taken the time to reveal some cleavage. Why would a woman show her breasts if she would be offended if they were looked at? According to the women whom I have asked this question (including my wife who does not reveal much if any cleavage), most if not all women who show some cleavage do it for the reason of appearing sexy. And if they are looked at with admiration, this is good. But if they are stared at with leering hunger, then this is not good. Of course this brings up a question...why can't I say to a woman, "You have great breasts?" Or "That outfit compliments your breasts." We have no problem saying that about hair, eyes, legs or even in some cases, the "buttocks" (except we say it with some discretion). Second, griffin, I think you need to get a social life where you can meet women and learn what women like. At 29, it is high time you have a good relationship. I think you will be surprised at how it enhances your life and confidence. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 If my bf was flirting with me, he would get a lot further paying attention to my waist/hip curves than mangling my breasts. While I admit I find breasts rather appealing, the most attractive and sexy thing about a woman is if she has a noticeable waist and "hip curves." But that would be another topic. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Hey James.. where have you been? I agree with you about the compliment.. although I'm not sure how appropriate it would be to comment (compliment) sexual assets.. How would you feel if a woman would say 'you've got a great lump down there sir'... .. looks yummy... would you take it as a compliment.. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Hey James.. where have you been? Life has been busy but otherwise good. It is good "seeing" you again...and especially on a thread about breasts. I agree with you about the compliment.. although I'm not sure how appropriate it would be to comment (compliment) sexual assets.. But that is my point. If a woman reveals her assets, then doesn't she expect a compliment? Who is she showing her breasts to? How would you feel if a woman would say 'you've got a great lump down there sir'... .. looks yummy... would you take it as a compliment.. YES!! Yes and yes. Wow, if that were to happen, then I am not sure what my reaction would be after the initial surprise wore off. I guess if a woman said that to me, I would consider it a pass. However, if I were exposing part of my "package," then I guess I would be wanting some compliments. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Sometimes it's not about showing our cleavage to anyone in particular.. it's just how the top fits. As for myself.. with my huge girls.. I show cleavage whether I want it or not.. unless I wear a turtleneck.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 Life has been busy but otherwise good. It is good "seeing" you again...and especially on a thread about breasts. But that is my point. If a woman reveals her assets, then doesn't she expect a compliment? Who is she showing her breasts to? YES!! Yes and yes. Wow, if that were to happen, then I am not sure what my reaction would be after the initial surprise wore off. I guess if a woman said that to me, I would consider it a pass. However, if I were exposing part of my "package," then I guess I would be wanting some compliments. You just gave me an idea.. I would be curious how a man would react if I'd tell him the "lump in his pants looks yummy'... another experiment Link to post Share on other sites
ON MY OWN Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 You just gave me an idea.. I would be curious how a man would react if I'd tell him the "lump in his pants looks yummy'... another experiment Great comment Lizzie!! I d love to be next to the guy that happened to !! LOL. This thread is definitely making me chuckle. Sometimes men wear tight pants, does it mean they want us to glance there also? Do we say he was askin for it or wants the attention? LMAO!!:laugh: The infamous "speedo" was bad enough, if in the pants was yummy, what is that a snack? LOL . Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 This thread is definitely making me chuckle. Sometimes men wear tight pants, does it mean they want us to glance there also? Do we say he was askin for it or wants the attention? LMAO!!:laugh: Interesting enough....men DO wear tight pants to get attention to their "package." It IS done so that women look at them and think "Wow...he is big!" Yes, men do want you to look. So, if you show your cleavage (and I don't mean just a hint of cleavage but an obvious "crack"), is that YOUR intention also? If not (besides a tight fitting top), why do YOU show cleavage? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 If not (besides a tight fitting top), why do YOU show cleavage? I think women check out each other too. Compare parts, so to speak Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 Breasts are nice - they are sexy. I love women with curves too. I can appreciate sexy, curvy women! Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Share Posted June 24, 2009 all i've wanted was to be in a relationship. it never happens. as i've said in other posts, most of my friends are guys, and just about everyone i know is in relationships. every now and then i'll make a new friend, guy or girl, might be single. kind of nice to have someone to talk to that understands. then they get in a relationship and don't have time to be my friend anymore. i'm almost 30 but because of "circumstances" i'm not actively seeking to date anyone. i work night shift, so not like i can take someone out on a date. past financial issues mean i still live with my parents. who would want a guy like that? so i'm not doing match.com. not to be picky, i just want it to happen, i don't want it to feel forced. so i just give up, i'll just glance from afar, and always wonder what i'm missing out on. Link to post Share on other sites
ON MY OWN Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 Interesting enough....men DO wear tight pants to get attention to their "package." It IS done so that women look at them and think "Wow...he is big!" Yes, men do want you to look. So, if you show your cleavage (and I don't mean just a hint of cleavage but an obvious "crack"), is that YOUR intention also? If not (besides a tight fitting top), why do YOU show cleavage? Very interesting James! Do they want to see us looking? Would that make make you guys feel great? Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 here's another question....ladies, with some of the outfits that you wear, are you not afraid of "spilling" out of your shirt. not that any guys around would complain, but is a clothing malfunction ever a worry? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 here's another question....ladies, with some of the outfits that you wear, are you not afraid of "spilling" out of your shirt. not that any guys around would complain, but is a clothing malfunction ever a worry? and???? it's nothing...can't be worst than going topless on a beach... Link to post Share on other sites
ON MY OWN Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 and???? it's nothing...can't be worst than going topless on a beach... LMAO!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 here's another question....ladies, with some of the outfits that you wear, are you not afraid of "spilling" out of your shirt. not that any guys around would complain, but is a clothing malfunction ever a worry? There's always a classy way to show off one's cleavage . I wouldn't go overboard - I love subtlety. Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted June 29, 2009 Author Share Posted June 29, 2009 There's always a classy way to show off one's cleavage . I wouldn't go overboard - I love subtlety. could you give us an example of this "subtlety", preferably with photos? Link to post Share on other sites
mikegreenfur Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 Sometimes it's not about showing our cleavage to anyone in particular.. it's just how the top fits. As for myself.. with my huge girls.. I show cleavage whether I want it or not.. unless I wear a turtleneck.. That's how my fiancee is. She is a size 16-18/38DD and they are naturally perky (believe it or not), so everything she wears is a little cleavagey. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted June 30, 2009 Share Posted June 30, 2009 could you give us an example of this "subtlety", preferably with photos? Maybe you can google "subtle cleavage" Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted July 1, 2009 Author Share Posted July 1, 2009 can't blame a guy for trying. Link to post Share on other sites
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