Christina4 Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 Im 20, he's 22.... We've been in a "relationship" for 9 months. Everything is going well, we get along, and have lots of fun with each other, great conversation, really good connection. BUT... I dont know where he lives. His mom knows of me but we havnt met, i spent new years with his sister and some of there family. Ive asked where he lives but he hasnt told me, just found a way to go over the question... Should I grow skeptical or just wait it out???? Thanks for your replys Link to post Share on other sites
Mycroft Posted May 4, 2009 Share Posted May 4, 2009 I would be crazy skeptical in your shoes. If I dated a girl and she wouldn't let me know where she lived after 9 months I would assume she was married or at least had a boyfriend she was hiding from me. Its a good sign you met his sister, but maybe he just trusts her with this sort of thing. I'm guessing hes a player, and doesn't want girls to know where he lives cause its the 1 place where 2 different women might show up and catch him in a lie. It would also allow him to disappear if things went south. I could be way off. You might want to be forward about it. You have asked him before and he dodged the question, next time don't let him. If he refuses to tell you I would just end it right there. People don't do that for no reason. Maybe it could be more innocent, like his place isn't nice and ashamed of it, he thinks his parents are crazy, something like that. Probably best to talk about it with him and get an answer. If hes a player the answer you get will very likely be a lie. Link to post Share on other sites
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