CGrace44 Posted May 5, 2009 Share Posted May 5, 2009 I started an undefined relationship with a friend of mine about a month ago. I call it 'undefined' because he is graduating college in a couple of days and I am moving across the country for an internship for 6 months. Because of these circumstances we didn't want to jump into anything. I care for him a lot but as far as we have discussed we are "dating" but not necessarily exclusive--although I am only dating him right now, and I know he is only dating me...we just didn't want to make things complicated when things had to end after the semester, or be forced into trying to make a long-distance relationship work when we are still only at the beginning stages of a relationship. His graduation is coming up this weekend. I didn't know (as his friend with benefits) if I should get him something for his graduation. I am planning on meeting his family for dinner on this day, as 'someone special' but not declaring ourselves bf/gf. Also, a few days after his graduation is his birthday. Should I get him a present for his birthday? If so, any ideas here? Link to post Share on other sites
tigressA Posted May 5, 2009 Share Posted May 5, 2009 If you really want to get him a present, then sure, go for it...nothing expensive, just something to cater to an interest of his. I had an FWB once and for his birthday I bought him the new CD of one of his favorite bands that had just come out. If you know of a particular restaurant he really likes to go to for food, get him a gift card...etc. Something like that would be appropriate--small, but letting him know that you're keen to his interests, that you care for him. Link to post Share on other sites
Arva Posted May 6, 2009 Share Posted May 6, 2009 I think, If you should get him something for his graduation then u can get his friend with benefits. Link to post Share on other sites
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