Island Girl Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 There's also that little ignore button that does wonders. I can't think of anything good he could ever have to say. Ever. Great point. I forgot about that! :bunny::bunny:
rbuterl406 Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 I go to a different school than my girlfriend, and I am absolutely GAGA about her! I typically make more girl friends in class than guy friends, so I spend time in my more lenient classes chatting with these girls. And, as you probably guess'd, all I can talk about is my girlfriend! The same goes with my guy friends. She knows that I talk to absolutely everyone about her, but whenever I tell her that I've talked to a girl, befriended a girl in class, or am even in a group project with girls in it (design class - 45 women, 4 men), she gets REALLY jealous. My girlfriend is just super-de-duper jealous, as some girls are. While she usullay reacts almost on reflex and gets really mad, it never lasts long because she knows that I would never betray her that way. Plus, I never hang out with any of them outside of class, anyway.
Admiral Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 I go to a different school than my girlfriend, and I am absolutely GAGA about her! I typically make more girl friends in class than guy friends, so I spend time in my more lenient classes chatting with these girls. And, as you probably guess'd, all I can talk about is my girlfriend! Please excuse me while I find my pussy-whip. You are probably annoying the hell out of your poor friends. The same goes with my guy friends. She knows that I talk to absolutely everyone about her, Bad move. You're interest level in her is through the roof. You are no longer a challenge, she has total control of you, and she knows it. She will grow bored. but whenever I tell her that I've talked to a girl, befriended a girl in class, or am even in a group project with girls in it (design class - 45 women, 4 men), she gets REALLY jealous. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with what you are doing. She needs to calm down. She can't stop you from doing that. While she usullay reacts almost on reflex and gets really mad, it never lasts long because she knows that I would never betray her that way. You need to let her know that is not OK, if she gets mad at you for that, you should leave her. Plus, I never hang out with any of them outside of class, anyway. You should. She'll start taking you for granted very soon, and then she will get bored of you. You need to play hard to get. Make her WORK to keep you.
LonelyTiger Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 I've already said it on this thread but I would like to say it again to you rbuterl406 because you are a brand new poster and I would hate you to think that you will only get negative advice on here. PLEASE IGNORE ANYTHING THAT ADMIRAL SAYS! I haven't yet read anything he's written on this forum that is valuable or helpful to anyone! (Just my opinion obviously!) On a more positive note: I'm a woman and I LOVE it when a man is GAGA about me! I'm not in the least bit interested in a man who is a challenge - I'm more likely to get bored and lose interest if he doesn't pay me enough attention! Most women and men have a jealous streak - even me - and I'm not the jealous type - as you'll have gathered from my previous posts on this thread. If she's jealous, at least you know she cares. I think leaving somebody because they 'get mad' occasionally is a little extreme! There's no reason why you should start hanging out with girls outside class unless you want to - and I do think your girlfriend has some say in what level of 'hanging out' would be OK. Making relationships work is about give and take. I have no desire whatsoever to WORK to keep a man's interest - he either wants me or he doesn't!
tigressA Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 My BF doesn't have female friends who he hangs out with or even talks to on a regular basis. He lives 3 hrs. away and works full-time; I'm still at the school where we met 18 months ago. The only friends he spends time with are still at our school and they're all guys. He comes to visit me every other weekend and I have him go off with them for an evening of poker/pool/stupid YouTube videos. He's the first guy I've been with who doesn't spend time with/regularly talk to other females--he doesn't even have ex baggage. It's different. I had to get used to it at first but I quite like it now.
mental_traveller Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 No. Men arne't supposed to be in long distance relationships, you're lucky if hanging out is all he does. Long distance relationships force people to try to repress their sexuality. Nonsense, there's nothing to stop you having sex with other people while you're apart. Even monogamous LDRs can get off via webcam with each other.
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