InDoubt Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 Hello all, I've gotten great imput from this forum in the past so I'm back to get your opinion. I met a guy 10 days ago at a festival, the friends I was with sort of knew him, he's 27, 6 yrs younger. He kept following me around, which then seemed very flattering. He took me to my car, asked for my number and kissed me! Since then he's been text msg'ing me a couple of times a day. We went on a date last Saturday, it went really well, apart from the fact that he towards the end of the night he started complaining: you didn't kiss me, it takes you time to reply to my msgs, you don't stay on the phone enough time when I call.... He told me that a couple of his past gf?s were mean to him. He has trouble focusing at work and he's not happy with it. Last night he called and scared me a bit. I was getting in my car to go home after a long day (I?ve been very busy that last few months). We talked for a while, he said how happy he's he met me, I said the same goes for me, he relied, "Do you even care? Or do you just stay on the phone because I am so sensitive and you pity me?"I assured him I like hanging out with him. After 10-15 mins I indicated that I haven't eaten yet, he initially said he'd let me go but when I was saying goodnight he kept this long silence and he asked "Are you mad at me?" He couldn't tell me why he felt so. We talked some more, he said weird things, like that "when I talk about personal things I get carried away and then it gets dark and takes a different turn? along those lines. He implied my accent is fake (I am a foreigner)! Fourty mins into the phonecall I said again that my food is ready and I had to go. I started the goodnights again, the thank yous for calling me and he was silent again. I said something like "your turn now" he told me "you are mean, you are very mean to me"! I didn?t feel good after the call. Obviosly he?s very insecure (I tend to attract the type) but his insecurity and suspicion sounds almost pathological to me. Or is he just too young? I am afraid that subconciously he?s manipulating my feelings. Thank you guys! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 Good LORD get out of this before he wears your head as a hat. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 he sounds quite odd... be careful! Or just laugh it off - like when he says you're mean, just say "yeah,i'm a meanie! don't you love that? hehehe" -yes Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 21, 2003 Share Posted October 21, 2003 If your gut says to you that his behaviour is odd, listen. If your gut says 'warning, warning' - LISTEN. Take it from one who overruled instinct and came to grief for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Fancy Posted October 22, 2003 Share Posted October 22, 2003 All he needs to see of you again is ass and elbows as you run far, far away from him. He sounds like stalker material from what you've said. Cut your losses now and don't lead him on any further. Otherwise, you could have a biiiiiiig problem on your hands. Link to post Share on other sites
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