bubbles5 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Well I am feeling very bad that I was not able to give my exam n I feel like a failure and I tried hard but my projects remain incomplete n now I have to tell everyone how I have taken drop, I am confused and dont have any idea how to finish my pending projects they are all drawings and its like finishing my thesis and I am tired , My problem is I am feeling bad that I am unable to tell my relatives or frnds and even my office ppl where I had taken training and I dont know how to tell n explaiin them all abt how I was unable to finish things I feel nothing positive happening around my life I feel so shatterd , I dont understand how should I face my office colleagues where I took training n tell everyone , I feel guilty I feel I have committed crime by hiding that I am not able to finish my graduation its just so painful that I feel lonely n have no onee around to help me out this really sucks. I am feeling so confused n lost.. I am even afraid how every1 will react, and I feel I have brought disappointment for every1 in my family n office frnds n I dont know seems world absoultely upside down since i am unable to complete my final graduation....... pls help me or say some sentences to inspire I need something to get going n face everything, It feels like depressing...... Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 First, I think most people here will say to please write properly. It is not very comfortable trying to read your message. And I think by what you tell us you are an educated person. The thing to do is to be honest, because the more you cover up your mistakes and failings, the more you will complicate things. Ask a superior to help. or there must be somebody in Human Resources or at your university who can speak to you about this. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Unfortunately, failures do occur. It's a fact of life that we have all gone through multiple times. Fortunately, in your situation, there are professionals who are there for just such a reason. Most schools have some kind of guidance counselor, and I'm sure they've heard stories similar to yours before. Go talk to one of them; they'll be able to help you not only deal with the emotional problems associated with it, but also help you to develop a plan for the future. It could just be that you need to take a slightly lighter load next year. Instead of finishing it up in one semester, you might need to leave one course for the semester after. As to who you tell, that's up to you. As long as they know that you made an effort and didn't just party all semester, I don't expect that your family will look down on you. They'll be sad for you, but in a sympathetic way, not a condescending way. Your friends, well, if they look down on you because of this, then they're not real friends. And office colleagues, well, you don't even need to tell them. It's none of their business. Link to post Share on other sites
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