my cheating boyfriend. wat to do

[xcrazzinlovex]

hey. me and my boyfriend justin have been going out for 1 month 2 weeks and 1 day.. lol not like im counting. well today in school a girl katie came up to me.. shes use to b justins best friend n i kinda talk to her and she asked if justin told me. i didnt knw what she was talkin about n i just walked away. then i saw justin and asked what she was talkin about, he said he didnt have a clue. well the day went on fine. then my best friend jessica tells a girl in my class to tell me to meet her at the bathroom so i do. she told me katie heard for a girl brittney that justin cheated on my saturday nite after he went to home coming with me. i couldnt believe it and part of me thought it was true cause yesterday he asked wat if he did cheat on me what would i do. well i said i didnt knw. since i cheated on him once.. when i was the movies wit my friend . A kid made a move on me n i ended up makin up wit him for 2 seconds n then i reliazed what i did n pulled bak. i ran home that nite and told him what happened. he worked threw it and evreything. **** was ok. but then after i heard this from my best friend i started to automatically cry. i walked into my class told my friend brian n steve. so i got up n asked my sub if i could go to lunch to get something to eat since i had lunch 8th. he said ok, i did this cause justin was in that lunch period. i call katie over n ask if he did cheat on me... she said from wat she know yes so i called him over i said honestly justin did u cheat on me. he said yes.i said that its over and i couldnt believe him then i flipped out .. no one would let me leave the cafeteria. they wanted me to clam down before i went back to my class. so my cousin got a pass to go to the bathroom from me.. and went with me to my class to tell my sub that something happened and iwould be in the bathroom washing up. well i did and i clamed down. i went back to my class and started to cry again. well then the period ended and i went up to justin. told him to tell me everything that happened. he said brittney, louie,eric and heather came over. he was saying good bye to brittney and hugged her good-bye. she went to kiss him and did n he pulled back and said i have a boyfrined, well since i made a mistake liek that in the past i said i will stay with him and for him to give me some time. well i cut the next period to be with my friend cause i was to upset to go to class. well i got caught .. i didnt care. big deal. well then i went to history last period of the day. well i saw justin on my way there. he said katie a note for me. so i went to history which katie is in my class and she gave me the note. it said how sorry he was n he loved me and never wanted to hurt me. well i spoke to katie and said what did brittney tell you happened, since shes good friends with her. she said brittney told her that.. she was cold he put his arm around her had his hand on her ass. moved her to the couch and told eric to leave. they started to make out for a few minutes... and then she stopped and he told her he wished he didnt have a girlfriend that nite. i heard this and i couldnt stop cryin. i cryed 6-8th period. i am more hurt than ever. all my life i had been hurt by guys. i lost my virginty to this kid . i love him more than anything in this world but i am in so much pain. he said the story katie told me wasnt true. i dont know who to believe. no one will help me. all my friends arent there for me in the time i need it most. i am so scared. i want to continue our relationship but the trust isnt there. i thought i would never have to worry about this with him. he told me he would never cheat on me and if he did he would tell me that nite. he lied to me so many times. i have been with this kid threw everything. most girls would have left him. i knew this girl too that he did this with.. i met her before and i saw her the day after this happened when i was at justins game. i didnt know this at the time thou. im kinda annoyed at her, she knows he has a girlfriend but still does this. i asked if he feelings for her he said no. katie said he told her that he likes her but he loves me he said he didnt say that.. he said he thinks shes cute but he loves me. im in a tough postition here. i wonder if he was ever gonna tell me. i cant believe this is happening.i dont know what to believe. i feel like ill never know the truth n i dont want to be with him if brittneys story was true, but ill never know. its killing me not knowing. i spoke to one of my guy firneds who went threw the same thing n he said he prob did make out wit her. i really hope that isnt the case. im not sure if hes lying to me or not. no one is helping me. i am so upset. what do i do please help me!";

[2Confused4thought]

Only one month together and already cheating! Sorry hun, but he is not worth the pain and problems that he will bring you in the future. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but trust me "once a cheater always a cheater" it's like they loose respect for you and think just cause you forgave him once that it's ok to do it again. Move on!

[UCFKevin]

Don't glaze over the fact that YOUVE cheated on him, too.

 

You've been together for a month and you've both cheated already?

 

What's the problem again? You guys obviously aren't happy with each other, just end it.

[VASH THE STAMPEDE]

Originally posted by UCFKevin

Don't glaze over the fact that YOUVE cheated on him, too.

 

You've been together for a month and you've both cheated already?

 

What's the problem again? You guys obviously aren't happy with each other, just end it.

Officially she didn't cheat.She pulled back and had no sexual desires or feelings toward this other kid.Also,the other kid initiated.

He (from what I understand) took advantage of what she told him and initiated a sexual encounter with this other girl.

With that said I think you should just leave him and look for better.