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I dont think there is one single answer to that question. They all have different tastes.

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someone who's comfortable being themselves....

 

so.. just be yourself.

 

it might take time, but someone will be attracted to who you are inside and that's what matters.

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Originally posted by jalexy

im really hoping you are a teenager, yourself.

 

Yes, I am a teenager. Any other comments? I'm interested in what people have to say.

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Dating as a teenager is tough because you run into girls with varying degrees of maturity. You have some who are immature and are into the high school jock types or the "bad boys"....and then you have those who are more tame and are looking for someone a little more stable. My advice is that you look for the latter, and don't try to be someone you're not just to suit the interests of a girl. High school isn't the real world so whatever happens here, just remember that the day you leave, none of it will matter (except your grades, of course).

 

What all girls like, though, is a person who feels confident in himself. They don't want a guy who likes like he's sad or no fun to be with. Wear a smile as much as you can. Have a good laugh.

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MDog: <you tiger, are you on the hunt for a particular girl?>

 

here's what i liked in guys, as a teenager, in retrospect:

 

*guys who could do stuff that i would have liked to know how to do - e.g. skaters, drummers, honour-rollers

<develop a alent, women will follow>

 

*guys who liked me and made me feel individualized -like there was something about me, specifically, that they could not do without

 

*guys who did not care what other people thought - give me a shredding che guevara/nashville pussy tshirt anyday over mother-pressed slacks and 200$ sunglasses

 

* guys i could not predict but who were clear about their feelings. i was kind of dumb about my feelings then, well, hell, i still am. there is nothing as fine as a guy who knows himself and what he wants at that young age, it suggests *so* much power.

 

hope this helps, cheers j

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if you are a teenager, then, great! as i don't want any old dirty scums to come here to learn what teenager girls like and then trick them up.

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ArdeaCandidissima

boys who...

 

* had a nice smile

* were confident without being cocky

* were intelligent and thoughtful

* were good looking and well built

* paid attention to me without being mawkish or clingy

* seemed to like me

* didn't need the support of a "male pack" to function

* made it clear that they had some ethics and morals

* were polite

* made me laugh

* were calm and in control of their feelings - i.e. didn't blow up or freak out

* were fun to be with - just spending time at the park, getting ice cream, chatting between classes

 

Funny, here I am 40 and that's STILL what I like.

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