Stuart Posted October 23, 2003 Share Posted October 23, 2003 Slept with My Best Friend My name is Stuart . I've known my friend Gina for 4 years. She was the first person I came out to. One night, we were swimming with a couple of girls, when one of them wanted to go skinny dipping. I wasn't so sure about doing it with other girls there, but I did it anyway. She wanted to see the girls do things to each other. They said they would if we did it after them. I said no but Gina shockingly agreed. The more I thought about it, the more it seemed harmless. The girls did what we asked them to do and when it came time for us, we hesitated. But, they said that we promised. We kissed and, for some reason, it was good. After we left the girls, we were walking back to the house and Gina said she has wanted to do it for a long time. She forced another kiss on me and I went with it. We took it to the house and things got out of hand and the title says the rest. I feel strongly for her and nobody else. She has told people and I told them we were together. My parents had a hard time accepting I was gay, now they have to deal with my newfound "straight" side. For one thing, I am getting people's approval and I like it but I only feel for Gina and no other girl or guy so what am I now ? Link to post Share on other sites
TheDonny Posted October 23, 2003 Share Posted October 23, 2003 I believe you can no longer define your sexuality.... you are just in love. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 23, 2003 Share Posted October 23, 2003 "I only feel for Gina and no other girl or guy so what am I now ?" Unisexual, maybe? Highly selectively heterosexual? I don't think it really matters. Sounds like you've found a good deal for yourself. Don't screw it up. Link to post Share on other sites
Wolverine117 Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 Once, i watched a movie about best friends falling in love. " Some Kind of Wonderful" with MAry Stuart Masterson. You have a good thing going on. Don't let that girl get away. There is such a thing as a soul mate. I think. I am still looking for mine. You have been sent yours. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Java Encrypt Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 SO ? whats the problem ? she likes you. you like her. just be grateful, and don't cheat on her with anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
lipglossboost Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 I agree with the poster that said you can no longer define your sexuality ... and you don't have to! Your life, your body, your choice! You can't control who you fall in love with. If you love her, then you should be with her. Good luck to you both! ~Lexi Link to post Share on other sites
Tom Moore Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 You are a lucky man, my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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