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From the sounds of this chick's "lifestyle" (no pun intended)....

 

I highly doubt that you would be drinking coffee. :)

 

True.....

 

But I'd need a pick-me-up for the ride home.

 

I'd be.....a little tired.

 

Actually, she lives at home, so if I went down there.... *shrugs*

 

It WOULD be about coffee. :)

 

-TP

not that coffee is a bad thing

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TP,

 

So there is a mushy heart under that hard-core Republican exterior! Anyway, hope this works out for you. You seem to want it to very,very much.

 

M

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I say you just need to ask her to marry you.. NOW...

 

Do it TP.. Ask her to be your wife..

 

Do it before the weekend is up, you don't want to waste one more second before getting on with the rest of your lives together...

 

AC - you are forgetting, he already did that, and she broke it off....

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-TP

in control

 

Just to state the obvious, you cannot be 100% in control over anyone but yourself. You can't control what anyone else will do to you.

 

Therefore, in terms of relationships, one is never really in "control".

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He does like her a lot. And the reason that I know this is because he told me. It wasn't that very long ago TP and I spoke on the phone and he poured his heart out about her some years later.

 

She left him hanging. And he had no closure. Maybe having her in his life will bring him happiness (what I really hope) and if not maybe this time he can get closure.

 

Either way TP I'm routing for you. :)

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Either way TP I'm routing for you. :)

 

Same here. Go TP!! :bunny::bunny::bunny:

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AC - you are forgetting, he already did that, and she broke it off....

 

Oh wow...ok, now that's messed up. This is even worse than I thought.

 

But yeah, I'll "rout" for you too! (sorry, Amay...just teasing you.:p)

 

Touche'

-will be here to pick up the pieces

alphamale Established Member

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i don't have time to read thru all the latest posts...what's the update?

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-TP

wuvz his mommy

Awww...that's adorable. :)

 

Good luck TP! Just make sure your heart is prepared for the worst case scenario and you'll be fine. We all survive heartbreak, many times for the better, as long as you keep looking forward with positive thoughts. No risk, no return.

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oops...:o

 

I'm rooting for you TP!

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i don't have time to read thru all the latest posts...what's the update?

 

 

 

No no no ....YOU are the expert at fantastic updates!

 

but TP is in love :love:

 

he is a sweetheart and loves his mom

 

everyone is worried he will get hurt especially those that know him best

 

but he is strong and what will be will be

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No no no ....YOU are the expert at fantastic updates!

 

but TP is in love :love:

 

he is a sweetheart and loves his mom

 

everyone is worried he will get hurt especially those that know him best

 

but he is strong and what will be will be

 

Good recap! lol

 

:bunny::bunny::bunny:

alphamale Established Member

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Good recap! lol

 

:bunny::bunny::bunny:

 

indeed :lmao:

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Well, let's see...

 

Here is my actual work schedule:

 

Monday:

 

Job 1 - 3:00 - 8:00PM

 

Tuesday:

 

Job 1 - 10:00 - 3:00PM

 

Wednesday:

 

Job 1 - 10:00 - 3:00PM, Job 2 4:00PM - 11:00PM

 

Thursday:

 

Job 1 - 9:00 - 3:00PM, Job 2 4:00PM - 11:00PM

 

Friday:

 

Sleep, household chores, errands, shopping, regain sanity

 

Saturday:

 

Job 2: 4:00PM - 11:00PM

 

Sunday:

 

Job 2: 4:00PM - 10:00PM

 

 

Now... HER schedule...

 

It varies, but it includes a lot of the same late nights, and she almost NEVER gets Fridays off.

 

Make a spreadsheet, FIND me time to spend with her.

 

And add to that... we live 1 hour apart.

 

AND.... I need family time, too.

 

-TP

they call me the workin' man

 

Saturday : 6 am to 4 pm

 

Monday : 6 am to 3 pm ( take naps together )

 

Tuesday 6 am to 10 am ( quickie )

 

Forget Wednesday and Thursday

 

Friday 6 am til she goes to work that night.

 

Hows that for your schedule ?

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TP,

 

So there is a mushy heart under that hard-core Republican exterior! Anyway, hope this works out for you. You seem to want it to very,very much.

 

M

 

As I've said many times, I live like a Conservative, I love like a liberal. ;)

 

-TP

likes hand....outs... lol

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Saturday : 6 am to 4 pm

 

Monday : 6 am to 3 pm ( take naps together )

 

Tuesday 6 am to 10 am ( quickie )

 

Forget Wednesday and Thursday

 

Friday 6 am til she goes to work that night.

 

Hows that for your schedule ?

 

LOL...

 

In a perfect world, that might work, but her hours vary anywhere from starting as early as 8am and ending as late as 11pm..

 

-TP

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Did the teacher cheat on you? Did she meet her ex, have relations with him, and then dumped you?

 

That's not just a pretty shixx thing to do, but it also speaks loudly of her character. Can you really get over that?

 

uhm...did you read the whole thread? Just wondering....

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That's not just a pretty shixx thing to do, but it also speaks loudly of her character. Can you really get over that?

 

Everything you post speaks loudly of your character.

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"Current" sent me a text today.

 

She's having a bad day.

 

She spent the morning talking her uncle out of suicide, because his wife told him that "she didn't love him anymore".

 

It's as if God wants to make this as hard as possible on me Friday.

 

-TP

sorry about your uncle...by the way.....

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"Current" sent me a text today.

 

She's having a bad day.

 

She spent the morning talking her uncle out of suicide, because his wife told him that "she didn't love him anymore".

today may not be a good day to tell her you're cheating on her :lmao::p

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today may not be a good day to tell her you're cheating on her :lmao::p

 

I refuse to do this anyway but in person, which will be Friday.

 

And, I haven't cheated. She KNOWS I am spending time with The Teacher, and we are NOT having sex.

 

-TP

...yet.

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I refuse to do this anyway but in person' date=' which will be Friday.[/quote']

see you're more man than i am....i would just go into NC or send an email :lmao:

 

And, I haven't cheated. She KNOWS I am spending time with The Teacher, and we are NOT having sex.

ok :)

Touche Established Member

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see you're more man than i am....i would just go into NC or send an email :lmao:

 

 

ok :)

 

And that's why you're still single.:lmao:

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see you're more man than i am....i would just go into NC or send an email :lmao:

 

 

ok :)

 

or just change your face book status and twitter I broke up with GF today.:lmao:

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Nope, they don't change. Yep, I thought he was a totally different person...what a fool.

 

Nope, they never do change. "We" will hold on, hoping they have changed, but people are who they are. It's very rare that a complete transformation takes place. It may happen, but I think it occurs as often as a poor, broke rancher winning a 250MM lottery -- alone.

 

For women it's best to read "10 Stupid Things Women do to Mess up Their Lives" (Dr Laura). It explains in detail why you shouldn't waste your time on men who will never change.

 

Men do the same thing, though I think "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (Glover) covers most of it.

 

Basically, if you respect yourself, you'll walk away (and stay away) when you're not getting what you feel you should in a relationship.

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