Touche Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 basically TP started dating this new bisexual woman a few months back. within the past week or two his ex bisexual gf sent him an email (after 3 years of NC and she dumped hiim). he responded back to her within 5 hours. they got together and he went all ga ga and she apologized and gave him some sob story saying she's changed and realized how she hurt him. now she wants to get back together with TP and "build a life". he's probably bangin' her right now basically she's full of sheeyot Crap! Ok, sorry but that was the most honest and at the same time the meanest thing I've ever seen... Wow. Alpha, if I ever had a brother, I think you'd be like the male version of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 I bet my hot buttered popcorn tastes better than her used nether regions....I mean think about it . hes got a gf ,. she has been messing around and likely tonite they are both messing around. Break out the latex ! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 sorry but that was the most honest and at the same time the meanest thing I've ever seen... It's reality. That's the scary thing. Maybe not the banging part (yet), but everything else yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 I don't know, TP. It sounds like you are a nice, soft rebound for her. And, what about this girl you are currently seeing? Teacher in your life is making you do what makes me cringe: hurting an innocent person without her knowledge (your new girl). No good comes from starting a relationship where an innocent gets hurt. If it starts out hurting someone, it can't be right. That's just not how I perceive a good, healthy, loving relationship to be. Loving relationships are hard, even when they start out on the right foot. When they start out this way? It is a cocktail for drama and heartache... and it shows her character if she has no qualms about "making a move" on a man who is involved with another woman. And I have been on and off LS for a few years. I have read your posts. You are a good man. It isn't your style to keep one woman dangling while you pursue an emotional relationship with another. Is this the type of man you want to be? I think not. WA Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Crap! Ok, sorry but that was the most honest and at the same time the meanest thing I've ever seen... Wow. Alpha, if I ever had a brother, I think you'd be like the male version of me. Hey, This reminds me of all the BS the dollgirl told DG when they got together after she was "married to other guys" even. She told him that he was the love of her life!!! Omg... And the worst part is that guys actually buy all this crap. TP, she is reformed, and she realized that she has so much love to give! (no more bad people telling her bad stuf) And she is going to give it all to you and she'll be tender, and caring, and nice. The sex will be awesome, and you'll have many happy children. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 yes, because we all know that what i say is crap and what you say is reality right? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 yes, because we all know that what i say is crap and what you say is reality right? No, you don't say crap. You have a good record with me. Link to post Share on other sites
AriaIncognito Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Ah, Ariadne, ever the romantic. I hope, for TPs sake, that you are right. However, track records here tell me you're not :bunny: We all just want what's best for TP, whatever that is. And hopefully he will prove us all wrong.... Hopefully... Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Ah, Ariadne, ever the romantic. I hope, for TPs sake, that you are right. However, track records here tell me you're not :bunny: We all just want what's best for TP, whatever that is. And hopefully he will prove us all wrong.... Hopefully... Are you for real? I was telling Touche about girls like TP's girl saying crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Ah, Ariadne, ever the romantic. I hope, for TPs sake, that you are right. .. ............ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 settling can lead to a loneliness that dwarfs what you feel today... Good luck TP... I guess... That's the "beauty" (for lack of a better term) of this... Regardless of what happens, I'll never be LONELY. When I was with her the first time around, I relied on her 100% for my social life.... Since her, I've built a terrific network of great friends (and it STARTS with Aria :bunny:)..... Even though after my breakup I was depressed and all.... I was never truly lonely. Sadness over a breakup is one thing, sadness over being ALONE is much worse, and thankfully, I KNOW I'll never go through THAT again. I'm fiercely loyal to those I care about, and Aria can tell you, my "circle" of friends is huge now. I'm so f*cking loveable! When I was with B the first time around, I went in with my eyes closed. It was a new relationship, with a new person, and there is always so much "unknown". If I were to get back with her, it would ONLY be with my eyes wide open. I know what she's capable of, and I also know how to deal with it. I truly believe that "the worst is over" with our "issues", but of course, just like anyone SHOULD be in a relationship, I will be on my guard slightly. I'm SO MUCH stronger a person than I was 3 years ago. If I DO get back with her, one PROMISE I will make to myself is that if crap hits the fan, I will be the one to walk away. Of course, I hope that never happens, but like I said, anything I do will be with my eyes wide open. -TP i am the man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 TP.. you're so already banging her.. aren't you ?.. tell us the truth... *wagging finger* I did not...have...sexual relations...with....that woman, The Teacher. -TP omg, i'm the LS Bill Clinton! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 It isn't your style to keep one woman dangling while you pursue an emotional relationship with another. If anything, I'm the one "dangling"... I'm seeing someone who I get to spend time with once every 2 weeks, tops. My current gf is a swinger (as in the lifestyle), so she doesn't exactly live the most monogamous life... She is divorced, and I am the first guy she's been with/dated since then, so she hasn't really been "swinging" lately, but she is very open about this. I don't want to be a "swinger". I actually want a wife and kids one day, something she does NOT want. That doesn't mean I should "settle", but at the same time, Teacher and I have a lot of the same "wants" out of life, and if there is a chance that we can achieve them together, honestly, as much as I'd have regrets if it fell apart again, the regrets I would have for not trying would haunt me just as much, if not more. -TP imagine me, a daddy.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 Ah, Ariadne, ever the romantic. I hope, for TPs sake, that you are right. However, track records here tell me you're not :bunny: We all just want what's best for TP, whatever that is. And hopefully he will prove us all wrong.... Hopefully... The only thing I really need to "prove" is that I'm a stronger person. Whether this works out or not, in a sense, is secondary. Can I be in a successful longterm relationship? I hope so. Can I handle another breakup? Well, of course, I hope it doesn't come to that, but, as James T. Kirk once said, "How we deal with death, is at least as important as how we deal with life..." -TP i have found my kobayashi maru......(wow, that was profound...if you know Star Trek) Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 i have found my kobayashi maru......(wow, that was profound...if you know Star Trek) I'd agree there. I actually think you should pursue this, you really like this girl. Link to post Share on other sites
xxSRMxx Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Go for it. I dont know u TP but ive thread most of this thread. Personally I could never look back so far, lifes about moving on and there are plenty of non swingers that want a family etc. BUT u only live once, so do what makes u happy. Lets hope u prove the cynics wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 TP, you never responded to my earlier reply..About your ex making a move on you, knowing full well that you are in a relationship and have a girlfriend. Doesn't matter that your gf is a swinger - You call her and have called her your gf for a while now even if you two don't plan on getting married, it's still a relationship. Doesn't that say something about your ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 TP, you never responded to my earlier reply..About your ex making a move on you, knowing full well that you are in a relationship and have a girlfriend. Doesn't matter that your gf is a swinger - You call her and have called her your gf for a while now even if you two don't plan on getting married, it's still a relationship. Doesn't that say something about your ex? It does, but at the same time, I was no angel, either. I am a VERY flirtatious person, whether it's someone I'm involved with, someone I like, or just someone I'm attracted to. I've grabbed my share of asses in my day. I'm willing to admit I probably "drew her in", so to speak, as a force of habit. I'm only human. -TP but damnit, I am a sexy bitch! Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 OMG Bill sexy btch TP, you're going back for more... God help you. Link to post Share on other sites
MindoverMatter Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 That doesn't mean I should "settle", but at the same time, Teacher and I have a lot of the same "wants" out of life, and if there is a chance that we can achieve them together, honestly, as much as I'd have regrets if it fell apart again, the regrets I would have for not trying would haunt me just as much, if not more. -TP imagine me, a daddy.... Yupp...you couldn't wait more than 5 hours to reply to that woman, and now you're imagining having a family together. You will waste another year or two of your life, and maybe come out the wiser...or maybe not. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 She couldn't hurt me again. No one gets that chance with me, anymore. Besides, I'm with someone now who I can bring to orgasm with just 2 fingers, and not even where you'd think. :) With The Teacher, I actually had to put some work into it. -TP BIG poppa You mean you give her EAR orgasms ? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 To be blunt... This has nothing to do with my current gf, and it's really none of her concern. Sometimes, a person has to do something solely for their OWN benefit. If anything, I'll get a few answers to some lingering questions. I've been with the current gf for less than 3 months, and we still haven't reached the "I love you" point, nor do I honestly feel it yet. I'm purposely holding myself back emotionally to avoid the mistakes of the past. I was in LOVE with The Teacher even before we started dating (which didn't happen until 4 months into our friendship). I've learned that love develops over time, and shouldn't be "forced" or "rushed into". If anything, this will help me clear my mind and allow me to once again, let my heart take a few more risks. There is no reward in life without risks, and I really haven't allowed myself to take any lately. She can't hurt me any longer. The pain she caused me has run it's course. Now, I can just get a few answers with a cool head. -TP tear me open, but beware, there's things inside without a care..... I'll stop at post # 73 . It seems this current gf is a rebound. It seems you had great chemistry and love with this EXgf. Do the new gf a favor and leave her life so she can find someone who does love her. There are so many posts here . I just try to respond as I see them. I was too tired last night. As for the letters to the EXgf. It seems she knew she had you back 5 hours later. ....... Not trying to beat you up here. Just picking posts... Link to post Share on other sites
kizik Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 Yep - 5 hours after 3 years. You do the desperation math... Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 If I were to get back with her, it would ONLY be with my eyes wide open. Ahh Hell. Eyes wide shut maybe? Good luck man. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 The way I look at it is this... If she feels she got a little "validation" from me, so be it. But, it's apparent from her original letter that she's feeling the effects of bad karma, and apparently from her tone, it's pretty bad. Nothing I can say or do will change that karma has bitten her in the ass, in some way. I'm a full believer in karma. No woman who has ever mistreated me has gotten away with it scot-free, from a karma standpoint. Part of me is chuckling over her misery, but that's only because it's personal. Otherwise, I do feel bad if things have gone to **** for her, because they never really did for me. I'm relatively happy now, it's more than I can say for her. So in the end, I came out on top. -TP though I usually was anyway It seems you truly have NOT gotten over her. Your reaction should be * nothing * but instead you relish over her misery............. Who says she's miserable ? (~ Dumpeee's favorite wish~ ) Keep in mind I am only on # 175... Link to post Share on other sites
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