divamommy Posted October 23, 2003 Share Posted October 23, 2003 My husband and i got married kind of young (20) We got married pretty much because I got pregnant. He is a sex/ pornography addict that put me thru a living hell for about 5 1/2 years until he finally admitted the problem and started seeking help. We went to therapy for a while and it did help ALOT. he went to a few meetings and insisted he had control enough to not go anymore. I gave him the benefit of the dount but he has had a few relapses since,and has cheated on me dozens of times. He says he is going to go back to meetings but he hasnt. I know i cant force him to grow up or get better. He dosnt even treat me like we are married, we dont go ANYWHERE we havent even had dinner out together in over 2 years, he dosnt ever want to sit with me or hold my hand or even act like a couple. He dosnt help me in the house or with the finances and i feel like a MOTHER instead of a wife. I do love him but i am making changes in my life that will lead to great success, i got a new career and a positive attitude and i cant take anymore of being his mom. We have a 5 year old son and i am not sure at this point if i am staying because of my son or because im scared to be alone. I just dont think he will ever change, and i dont know if i want to waste anymore time waiting. Any advice for a LOVELESS marriage? Link to post Share on other sites
TheDonny Posted October 23, 2003 Share Posted October 23, 2003 I was a 5 year old child when my parents got divorced. Do it now, before your child can realize what's happening. Divorce the man. It is harder for a child to grow up in a loveless marriage than it is for them to be with one loving parent. Link to post Share on other sites
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