JeezLouise Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Sadly enough, I stole parts of the dragging from something I heard in college from an old BF. I plagiarized!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Sadly enough, I stole parts of the dragging from something I heard in college from an old BF. I plagiarized!!!! Wow, color me disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Sadly enough, I stole parts of the dragging from something I heard in college from an old BF. I plagiarized!!!! I thank you for passing those very colorful words along for more to enjoy them!! I may just plagiarize them at some point myself!! Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Island Girl, apparently Cora found out from some sort of source that this a-hole's fiancee dumped him. . Do women gossip? or make up stories? I doubt it. He's probably hitting up a list of his old GFs to work on finding some stupid new replacement. Cora, you are worthy of respect and care - at a minimum - from any man that you deign to look at in a romantic manner. This guy has given you NONE of that. EVER. Probably. All guys are jerks, especially that one. Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 OMG Cora! I know that it is best that you do not talk to him but I want to tell him off myself. How dare he?!? How do insufferable jerks like him live with themselves! Ugh. Say nothing and get off that site. Disappear from his world. He can F* off eternally. There is nothing he can say that would ever make hurting you like that forgivable or that would make him deserve an ounce of your attention. Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Profile deleted! I never want to talk to that bastard again! How can he just disappear on me, make me look like a fool trying to track him down, make me feel worthless and then all of a sudden pop back up like NOTHING has happened? He just broke up with his fiancee....doesn't he need time to grieve? Oh that's right he has no heart. I want him to feel all the pain he put me through and the pain I'm sure his ex fiancee is now going through. Sigh....but I'm sure he never will feel that kind of pain. He is such a heartless jerk. Perfect. I think you will be able to heal properly now. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 We guys are all jerks.... its not your decisions - its our fault. If we could only be the way you wanted us everything would work out perfectly. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 We guys are all jerks.... its not your decisions - its our fault. If we could only be the way you wanted us everything would work out perfectly. Nice facetious comment. I am at a loss why you would chime in and post something like this that seems to be supportive of this douche bag and that all others are just making a big issue out of something insignificant. I am not sure that you are informed about what actually happened. But this post seems ridiculous. Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 I'm so happy that you deleted your profile. I can understand where you would want to send something back to him before deleting. It would probably feel awesome, but the lingering "what does he think about that? what did he say when I sent that?" would probably eat at you for longer. I've done the same thing in the past, but luckily had a best friend that would rather beat me to a pulp than to see me do something like that. It would hurt more in the end. But really, you're awesome for having the strength to do what you've done after being through what you have. As much of an inspiration as Island Girl is for us to stay strong during our LDRs, you're an inspiration to us as well for the strength that you've shown in recent months. Now take yourself out, get all dolled up, and let some cutie buy you a drink! You deserve to have some fun for a change! Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 My post wasn't intended to be offensive - rather as a means for us, as people, to try and better gauge what it is that we are doing wrong (or right) in relationships and whether we make good relationship decisions. I know I'm not perfect - but I strive to improve and learn. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cora Posted May 22, 2009 Author Share Posted May 22, 2009 You guys are awesome you know that? I wouldn't have been able to do all that I have done without all of your support! Thank you all so very much!!! Rollercoasterr: Your post literally made me tear up. You are so sweet! Thank you so much! Update: Since I deleted my profile last night he has now sent me a friend request on MySpace and Facebook. I have blocked him. When will he give up? What the hell does he want from me? He ditched me and made me feel pretty damn horrible. Why must he haunt me like this. I wish he would leave well enough alone. I no longer want him like he didn't want me. Can't he see that? Anyway, thanks again everyone for all the support! Link to post Share on other sites
KikiW Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 No, he is hoping to weasel his way back in. Keep doing what you're doing and eventually he'll get the message that no, you don't want to hear from him. Take some small satisfaction in letting him twist. Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 My post wasn't intended to be offensive - rather as a means for us, as people, to try and better gauge what it is that we are doing wrong (or right) in relationships and whether we make good relationship decisions. I know I'm not perfect - but I strive to improve and learn. Do you know Cora's story? This guy can go to hell. No one was saying that it was all a mans fault or anything remotely like that. If you strive to improve and learn, please learn to refrain from making large sweeping judgmental comments. Everyone makes mistakes and bad choices. Why in the world would you feel it necessary to point specifically at people in this thread? Especially since Cora has obviously been hurt recently and has finally gotten some relief and power over the totally helpless situation she was put in. I was going to ignore your comments but your off topic posts frustrated me. Could you try a supportive comment instead? Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Keep deleting and blocking Cora! He will go away. You can concentrate on finding someone worth your energy. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Cora, I'm so glad you're staying strong through all this!!! We're all behind you here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cora Posted May 22, 2009 Author Share Posted May 22, 2009 Thanks again guys! I'm still blocking and ignoring him. I don't think there is any other way he can get in touch with me. I hope not at least. I think I was right on the money when I was guessing what went wrong between him and his ex fiancee. I read her new status message today on MySpace and it said "I'm done with lying, cheating guys who can't support themselves." I knew she was supporting his sorry butt! Which is probably why he has now had to move back in with his mother. I am so glad that she finally saw him for who he really is and didn't actually go through with marrying the scum! He better start searching for the next girl who will believe all his lies....well I'm sure he already has. Thank God I'm rid of him! Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 My post wasn't intended to be offensive Sorry YA. I think I was cranky this morning. Didn't mean to bite your head off. Cora - I would be so curious if I were you, and I would want to find out all the details and then tell him off - but don't give him any bait. He will go away sooner if you keep ignoring him. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Thanks again guys! I'm still blocking and ignoring him. I don't think there is any other way he can get in touch with me. I hope not at least. I think I was right on the money when I was guessing what went wrong between him and his ex fiancee. I read her new status message today on MySpace and it said "I'm done with lying, cheating guys who can't support themselves." I knew she was supporting his sorry butt! Which is probably why he has now had to move back in with his mother. I am so glad that she finally saw him for who he really is and didn't actually go through with marrying the scum! He better start searching for the next girl who will believe all his lies....well I'm sure he already has. Thank God I'm rid of him! Good for you, Cora. Perhaps the next guy will be an honest - faithful one who is gainfully employed, if that's what you like Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 If an honest, faithful, employed guy approached you randomly, by himself and took a genuine interest in you - how would you say you would respond? Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs_AJ Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Cora baby, NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER!!!! Yes, you were a bit jolted. Thought, "Gosh didn't see that one coming". But you're handling it brilliantly. If you find yourself thinking about it, just say "STOP" - mentally. Don't analyze, just say stop to yourself. I reckon you're a tough cookie! Link to post Share on other sites
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