lonelypiscesguy Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 I blew it with my GF, but I am trying to forgive myself and realize that she wasn't perfect. 1. oversensitive/insecure 2. our relationship always seemed like a group meeting for rehab (she was in sober living for a year and a half when i met her) 3. demanding, nagging, bossy (though in a way, I liked it because I knew she just cared, in her own way) 4. Most of all, the c***tease games! I hate feeling played with! serious issues with game players! 5. The little mixed messages that would confuse 6. the bickering half the time. 7. hated admitting being wrong 8. the same boring talks about her old jobs Link to post Share on other sites
iBelieve In Symmetry Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Dishonesty. Dishonesty. Dishonesty. Oh, and the lies. Exactly that, and her selfishness. Link to post Share on other sites
notalone Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 * his need for partying every weekend. * the long distance calls I had to make everyday. * his annoying habit of making everyone he comes in contact with feel like they are so important to him. (that's not human..is it?) * his mommy hang ups. * his tendancy to turn into the agony aunt/best friend of every girl he meets. * waiting for the eventual breakdown of the relationship (break up happened because his parents disapproved of me) I love this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Good thread! the ****ing Howard Stern showhis self-important New Yorker sisterthe way he undressed a friend of mine with his eyes (barf)confusing swings from hot to coldhis hyperprocrastination regarding anything that matteredhis jealousy of me, veiled in blunt and insensitive remarkshis emotional retardation Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 * his need for partying every weekend. * the long distance calls I had to make everyday. * his annoying habit of making everyone he comes in contact with feel like they are so important to him. (that's not human..is it?) * his mommy hang ups. * his tendancy to turn into the agony aunt/best friend of every girl he meets. * waiting for the eventual breakdown of the relationship (break up happened because his parents disapproved of me) I love this thread. Pretty much all of these apply to me too....especially the mummy hangups and the agony aunt/best friend thing - VERY manipulative. Used to NEVER give away anything about himself, just hear everyone elses problems. Link to post Share on other sites
Soul Bear Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 I wont miss Your alter super-ego Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 This is a cool Thread. I wonder how many of us would enjoy reading "what I don't miss" posts about us as posted by our ex's. It's kind of like an exit interview. Link to post Share on other sites
Soul Bear Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 This is a cool Thread. I wonder how many of us would enjoy reading "what I don't miss" posts about us as posted by our ex's. It's kind of like an exit interview. LOL!! Thats so true man. I think for my ex right now it would be 'i dont miss YOU'....probably the same for most of our ex's She will one day...but it'll be too late! Link to post Share on other sites
iBelieve In Symmetry Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 I wont miss Your alter super-ego Amen. Link to post Share on other sites
BW007 Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 well the worst one for me is Screwing Other people and lying. Yep, I won't miss that part.:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: Link to post Share on other sites
sillyheart Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 the "creative omissions" about other girls he was "spending time" withhis lies about his dietary restrictions that I tried so hard to accommodate... and then when I was surprised that he didn't question the creaminess of the sauce, for instance, I'd say, "Don't worry, I made it with soy yogurt," and he'd look confused, and I'd go, "You know, for your lactose intolerance," and he'd go, "Ooooohhhh.... yeah..... that...... um, thanks. Wow, do they make soy yogurt?"his mommy issueshis rivalry-with-his-brother issueshis utter self-absorptionhis... uh... hang-ups in the bedroom (social, emotional, psychological, sexual...)his attempts at physically dominating mehis hypocrisy. Hypocrisy about all the big issues.Okay, I could go on and on and on and on and on until LS has to buy another server to store my post on, but I won't. I already got my heart rate up typing about that soy yogurt incident. I wish he DID have an actual food sensitivity so I could trigger some sort of allergic reaction!!!! (LOL - not really) This is a helpful thread. I was getting wistful earlier today. LMAO oh my goodness that soy yogurt thing has me cracking up! There are some seriously crazy people out there in the world. I'm glad I'm not the only one that has encountered strangeness. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyV Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 I won't miss the fact that whenever it comes to talking to you, I have anxiety attacks!!! I won't miss your negative talk about your ex-wives! I won't miss your Notebook poster you have on your wall...Your a dude??? LOL I won't miss your horrible sigh and your complaining! Link to post Share on other sites
LadyV Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 I wont miss Your alter super-ego Love it Soul Bear! Link to post Share on other sites
Author t0ri Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 -I miss sex, but not with YOU. You were selfish, boring, and not great. And your right, your penis is nothing to brag about. HA! (I wish he could read that) -I won't miss you telling everyone about our problems and your feelings, except me -I won't miss your lack of conversation skills -I won't miss your snoring -I won't miss your immaturity -I won't miss your obsession with your friends -I won't miss your narrow mind -I won't miss your bed -I won't miss your cat, or dirty cat box that I cleaned for you always -I won't miss your dirty bathroom, or room, or kitchen -I won't miss the fact that you never took me anywhere, never wanted to go anywhere, or do anything but get drunk. -I won't miss your selfishness -I won't miss being interested in you, your day, your family, etc, with you asking nothing/not caring about me, in return. Guess who's interested in MEEE now!?! -I won't miss your ungratefulness. Especially towards me. -I won't miss your inconsiderate ways -I won't miss your laugh. It used to make me smile, now it bugs me. -You were straight-up mean. I won't miss that. Thankfully, I'm not missing much about you at the moment. And the things I DO miss, I'm likely to find in someone else. Screw you. Anger is a great feeling right now. Link to post Share on other sites
hopefulInFuture Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 I definitely won't miss his lies and his getting angry when confronted about lies; I won't miss his arrogance when believing that he could just play with people as if they were toys; I won't miss him in general. I am pretty sure about this because once I recover from this hurtful phase, I know that I deserve better than a person who can lie to me like that. Nobody who truly and honestly cares about you will lie to you. So to him it was all a game... I definitely won't miss wondering what really happened cause I already know. Link to post Share on other sites
xxSRMxx Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 - I wont miss your lies - Your wondering eyes - Hypocrisy - Womanising ways - Disrespectful attitude Oh and you support blues, and im villa. Was never gunna work lol. Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 -I miss sex, but not with YOU. You were selfish, boring, and not great. And your right, your penis is nothing to brag about. HA! (I wish he could read that) -I won't miss you telling everyone about our problems and your feelings, except me -I won't miss your lack of conversation skills -I won't miss your snoring -I won't miss your immaturity -I won't miss your obsession with your friends -I won't miss your narrow mind -I won't miss your bed -I won't miss your cat, or dirty cat box that I cleaned for you always -I won't miss your dirty bathroom, or room, or kitchen -I won't miss the fact that you never took me anywhere, never wanted to go anywhere, or do anything but get drunk. -I won't miss your selfishness -I won't miss being interested in you, your day, your family, etc, with you asking nothing/not caring about me, in return. Guess who's interested in MEEE now!?! -I won't miss your ungratefulness. Especially towards me. -I won't miss your inconsiderate ways -I won't miss your laugh. It used to make me smile, now it bugs me. -You were straight-up mean. I won't miss that. Thankfully, I'm not missing much about you at the moment. And the things I DO miss, I'm likely to find in someone else. Screw you. Anger is a great feeling right now. Simply brilliant! Remind me never to piss you off. Perhaps there's a reality TV show, here. Called: "What I Don't Miss About You!" Link to post Share on other sites
dwracing39 Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 I wont miss her her snoring like a BEAR.. ( i can handle a cute girly snore..lol) Her total disregard for her appearance once we married. Her attempts to start arguments with me, when id do anything to avoid a fight Her calling crying to her mother anytime we had an argument I dont miss her mother either now that her name comes up. Her caring more about smoking weed than paying bills. Cigarette burns in my Trans Am's leather interior (she knew i didnt want her smoking in my car) Do I still love her? unfortunately yes. Link to post Share on other sites
now_what Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 I won't/don't miss him coming home from work every night, wolfing down his dinner, changing into jeans and the belt with the Harley Davidson buckle, putting on the Harley Davidson tank top and the HD boots, getting "the bike" out of the garage and tearing down the alley with the stereo blaring "Great Balls of Fire" Yes, "the bike" had a stereo. Then coming home hours later after supposedly being at a friends house, watching some porn on the computer and getting into bed, turning away from me as soon as I got into bed and near the end, not even speaking to me when he left for work. Yeah, I won't miss that. Link to post Share on other sites
iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 I won't miss your Notebook poster you have on your wall...Your a dude??? LOL LMAO!! Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 I wont miss your: 150 degree body heat in bedsnoringupper lip hairmohavi desert ruined complexionlack of interesting personalityacting like the most agreeable person, but your just hiding your real personKeeping your problems with me inside like a childcomplete lack of sexual skillsawful tattoosshowing in scalding hot waterweird looking implantslying about your sordid pastfollowing what your twin sister does because you cant think for yourselfyour sex moans sound like a dead dog dying, my landlord was rightyour BS about not liking talking on the phone, and only communicating in textyour habit of string along guys while i was with you, then tried to do it to me. C U Next Tuesday! Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 changing into jeans and the belt with the Harley Davidson buckle, putting on the Harley Davidson tank top and the HD boots, getting "the bike" out of the garage and tearing down the alley with the stereo blaring "Great Balls of Fire" Yes, "the bike" had a stereo. . THAT is hysterical. I picture Mr Rogers changing and jumpin on a hog. Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 - -I won't miss your dirty bathroom, or room, or kitchen -I won't miss the fact that you never took me anywhere, -I won't miss your selfishness Ugh, what a wake up call, this could be my ex speaking Link to post Share on other sites
WhyYesThankYou Posted June 15, 2009 Share Posted June 15, 2009 LMAO oh my goodness that soy yogurt thing has me cracking up! There are some seriously crazy people out there in the world. I'm glad I'm not the only one that has encountered strangeness. I've been having a bit of a sabbatical from LS but glad to come back and see that "The Tale of Soy Yogurt and Fictitious Lactose Intolerance" put a smile on someone's face. The more time that passes, the more things I realise I don't miss about him. Perhaps most importantly, I'm remembering all those things that were semi-red-flags at the time, but that I let slide, thinking maybe I was being "too picky." In future I will trust my instincts more. Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 Im bumping this thread because it should be read allthe way through.... Link to post Share on other sites
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